Ali When a girl says she just wants to have fun it shows that she doesn’t want to be in a serious relationship with you.
The only thing she wants with you is just to spend her time with you, and enjoy the moment without strings attached.
She says she just wants to have fun. After all, she doesn’t want you to be so serious with her because she will never give you what you want.
This is like a warning for you not to fall in love with her because all she is after is fun and nothing serious.
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Anyway, there are so many reasons why a girl would say she just is into you for the fun and nothing more.
Before I share everything you need to know about this, you need to know what it means when a girl says she just wants to have fun.
What does it mean when a girl says she just wants to have fun?
When a girl says she just wants to have fun it means she doesn’t want to be in a relationship with you because she doesn’t want commitments and attachment. All she wants to do with you is enjoy her time with you.
She doesn’t want a serious relationship with you because she doesn’t want to commit to anyone right now.
What she wants you to know is that she will never take things seriously when it comes to the two of you.
All she wants to do is enjoy the moment with you without making a big deal out of it.
This is another way of her telling you that she doesn’t want to be in a relationship — she only wants pleasure.
When a girl says she wants to have fun with you there is something that she is not telling you.
It can be that if she tells you the truth about how she feels and thinks about you it may end up hurting your feelings.
If you want to know why she said she wants to have fun with you and nothing serious, keep reading.
This is why she said she just wants to have fun;
1. She doesn’t want to commit to you.
She said she just wants to have fun with you because she doesn’t want to commit to you.
This is one way of telling you that she is not ready to build a solid relationship with you because she is not ready to focus on it.
There are so many reasons why a girl would not want to commit to you, I’ll be listing them as we keep going deeper.
When a girl doesn’t want to commit to you because she doesn’t want to indulge herself in a serious relationship but she still likes being around you — she will tell you that she wants to have fun.
Commitments are not for everyone, for someone to commit to a relationship they have to be ready to let go of everything else and focus on a single person.
That is what it takes to build a relationship plus effort on top of it.
If a girl is not ready to give you everything and leave everything behind just to build a solid relationship, this is what she will tell you.
It can be that she is not ready to commit to you, she doesn’t want to be in a relationship or she just doesn’t think she can settle with you.
She may still want her freedom to roam around and connect with any guy she feels like without feeling bad about it.
If she decides to commit to you she will lose that freedom of hanging out with anyone she likes because she will have to keep boundaries.
Some girls hate the part of being locked in with a single person, the only thing they prefer is their freedom.
Others find it hard to commit to a single person because they find it a burden.
The way you feel and think about relationships is not the same way other people think about them.
The truth is that she has feelings for you but she is not ready to let everything go and focus on you — that is why she said she just wants to have fun.
2. She wants pleasure only.
When a girl says she just wants to have fun it means that she only wants to have sex with you and nothing serious.
She wants you for the pleasure and nothing else.
Have you heard of friends with benefits?
Friends with benefits is the kind of relationship where a man and a woman are friends but are free to have sex with each other without committing to each other or engaging in a serious relationship.
If she is your friend and she says that she just wants to have fun, this means she wants you to be friends with benefits.
She has feelings for you and she is ready to act on them by letting you have her body but not her heart.
You can hang out, get romantic with each other, and have sex but she will never consider being in a relationship with you.
She can’t be in a relationship with you because the only thing she wants is sex.
It can be that she has noticed you have feelings for her and you have always wanted to get the chance to lay her on your bed.
The truth is that she is attracted to you sexually but she can’t see anything more past that.
Some girls find it easier to just have sex with the guys they are close to without making attachments.
Some do this because they are afraid of being hurt or getting themselves in a situation that they can’t handle.
And that is why they find it easier to just focus on the pleasure than on the connections and attachments.
On the other side; she only wants to have fun with you because she wants the freedom to have sex with any guy she likes.
Casual relationships are her choices and that is why she always considers making things that way.
Today she finds you sexually attractive but after a few days, she will find another guy who is more attractive than you.
Which means she will also want to have sex with him. And that is why she can’t focus on you only.
The only thing she wants is sex from anyone she finds attractive. If she gives everything to you, it will be hard for her to do what she likes.
3. She is not in love with you.
The truth must be told, if a girl says she only wants to have fun with you it means she is not in love with you.
You are not the man she wants to be with and that is why she is giving you this option.
The truth is that if she was in love with you she would have been ready to give you everything.
She would have been ready to build a serious relationship with you and commit to you.
The love she has for you is not enough for her to give you everything.
Trust me, when a girl needs you she will do everything she can to get hold of you.
She will be ready to let go of anything just to have you in her life, but if she gives you excuses just know you aren’t the one.
When a girl is in love that is the only thing that will drive her. If she tells you that she just wants to have fun, she doesn’t love you.
She only wants to use you for your attention, money, and sex.
The truth is that she will just waste your time and energy when you agree to let her have fun with you.
She won’t lose anything because she is doing this on her terms.
If you compromise what you want from her and agree with what she wants you will be missing out on so much.
A girl who truly cares about you and loves you will never waste your time or use you for anything.
If you asked her to be your girlfriend and she told you that she doesn’t want a relationship but wants to have fun — she doesn’t love you.
4. You are not the kind of man she wants.
Before a girl agrees to be in a relationship with you, commit to you, and give you everything she has to be sure you are the man she can build a future with.
She has looked at you and the way you handle yourself and she has realized that you are not exactly the type of a man she wants to be with.
One part about you excites her but for the moment. When she thinks about her future, she doesn’t picture you as the type of guy she would want to be stable with.
It can be that you don’t have the qualities she is seeking in a man or she just doesn’t think you can give her what she wants.
You are an interesting guy to hang out with, go to parties, and travel with but not a guy she would consider a future with.
She knows that once she indulges herself in a relationship with you, she will waste her time because you aren’t the type of guy who she wants a future with.
She doesn’t see a future with you at all. It can be that you aren’t that ambitious the way she would like you to be or just not her type.
You are not someone she can have a long-term relationship with and that is why she is giving you the option of having fun with her.
If she saw a future with you she wouldn’t have given you the option of having fun with you.
She would have wanted to keep you for herself and focus on you as long as it takes.
You would have been a price for her and she would do anything to make sure she holds you tight so that she doesn’t lose you to someone else.
5. She is into someone else who she can’t have for now.
When a girl says she just wants to have fun it shows that she is not into you but there is someone else she can’t have.
She doesn’t want to be in a relationship with you because she might end up missing the chance with the guy she needs.
If a girl is not ready to give you her time, energy, attention, and focus — she is giving all that to someone else.
If she doesn’t love you, she loves someone else. That is what you should know. If she can’t give you something it doesn’t mean she won’t give it to someone else.
The guy she wants to be with so badly may not be into her or he is out of reach.
She can’t get hold of him right now but she is optimistic that in the future she will.
Right now she wants someone to occupy her and help her push time because she doesn’t want to be lonely.
She knows that you are interested in her and that is why she is giving you this option.
Since you are into her you will consider having her without knowing that she is only using you for the moment.
You may think that you are the one benefiting but she is just playing you for a fool, when the guy she needs comes through, she will cut you off.
She wants to have fun with you because she doesn’t want to be lonely.
6. She likes casual relationships.
If a girl considers a casual relationship with you, she likes it that way.
The truth is that you are not the first guy she has been in a casual relationship with.
A woman who has new experiences in relationships will never consider letting a man have sex with her just for fun.
She wants to have fun because it’s something she feels comfortable doing. She likes having fun with random guys.
This may be something that you can take from her, you will just have to be okay with it because it’s her choice.
A woman who has tasted how incredible casual relationships are will never consider committing to a relationship.
Why would you consider working when you can have everything you need for free?
The same case applies to commitment in relationships, it’s hard to commit to someone.
There are so many things involved in ensuring that a relationship thrives. It’s not all women who are willing to invest all their time and energy into growing a relationship.
Some prefer the easy way out —casual relationships resonate with them.
So, if a girl tells you that she just wants to have fun know that you may not be the first guy she had fun with.
That is something she has been doing for a while to the extent that she got too comfortable with it.
Lastly…
When a girl says she just wants to have fun it means she only wants to have sex with you. She doesn’t want anything serious right now.
She can’t give you what you want for now, if you fall in love with her that will be the end of you.
The truth is that she will never agree to date you because that is not in her options right now.
If she says she just wants to have fun it’s up to you to decide if that is what you want or not.
Keep in mind that she will never commit to you or give you what you want, if you fall in love with her it will only wreck you into pieces.
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