Ali When a girl says she just wants to have fun just know that she is not thinking of being in a serious relationship with you.
If you were pursuing her and she told you this, just know that she can’t give you what you want.
You may want something serious but that is not what she is thinking about.
Anyway, before I go deep into this article, let me share what it means when a girl says she just wants to have fun.
What does it mean when a girl says she just wants to have fun?
When a girl says she just wants to have fun it means she doesn’t want to commit to a relationship or indulge herself in anything serious with you. She only wants to enjoy the moment — she is only in for the pleasure and nothing else.
Maybe you have approached her and asked her to be your girlfriend because you are in love with her, but she told you that she wants to have fun.
This shows that she doesn’t want to date you. She can’t commit to a relationship right now because she just wants to enjoy herself.
It can be that she enjoys spending time with you but it doesn’t mean she is ready to give you everything.
So, when a girl tells you that she only wants to have fun it means she only wants to have a casual relationship or friends with benefits.
She wants to have sex with you with no strings attached. If she gives you her body it doesn’t mean she is agreeing to be with you for good.
You can do everything with her but don’t expect that she will indulge herself in a serious relationship with you.
That’s not what she wants right now. She just wants the pleasure (sex) from you, don’t expect anything more from her.
Anyway, why would a girl say that she just wants to have fun?
There are so many reasons why a girl would say something like this, let me explain in detail for you to understand what is going on.
This is why she says she wants to have fun;
1. She doesn’t want to commit to a relationship.
When a girl tells you that she just wants to have fun it means she doesn’t want to commit to any relationship.
Right now, she just wants to enjoy herself.
She doesn’t want to be tied up to a single person. She wants to explore what is out there.
Deep down she knows that if she tells you that she is ready to commit to you, that will be her prison.
She won’t be able to hang out with other guys and do what she wants with them.
What you should know is that commitment is like a sacrifice. When you commit to someone you have to be loyal to them.
You have to let go of the habit of entertaining other people and focus on the person you have in your life currently.
She is not ready to let go of her freedom right now. And that is why she tells you she just wants to have fun.
Knowing that making this option won’t enable you to hold her to yourself.
Sometimes girls are afraid to commit to relationships because they don’t want to lose their freedom.
They like it when they can hang out and do anything with any guy they adore.
If she commits to you, she won’t be able to do any of that. She will have to cut off other guys and only focus on you.
On the other hand, commitment requires someone ready to settle down.
She is not ready to settle down — she just wants to have fun and enjoy the company of any guy she adores.
2. She wants you to know that she only wants sex.
When a girl tells you that she just wants to have fun it means she wants you only for sex.
It can be that she has given you the impression that she wants you to be more than friends.
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This might have made you conclude that she wants you to be in a relationship with her.
You went ahead and expressed your feelings to her — letting her know that you feel the same for her and you would like her to give you the chance.
The thing is that you are on different pages, she doesn’t want anything else from you other than sex.
When a girl says that she just wants to have fun and the only thing she talks about is sex; just know that her angle is to get you to get her in bed.
She knows that you are into her. You are thinking that there might be more.
This girl doesn’t want you to conclude that she wants something big with you.
It can be that she noticed you are pulling back because she is coming hard on you.
She wants you to know that she doesn’t want anything serious with you, the only thing she wants is sex.
It’s like she is telling you, “Chill, I don’t want something big from you other than sex.”
3. She doesn’t want you to attach yourself to her.
The way you interact with her also plays a big role when it comes to what she says.
You are attracted to her. The only thing you think of is finding a way to pull her closer to you.
Now and then you ask her out on dates, buy her gifts, spend so much time with her, and give her full attention.
She knows that you are doing all these things to make her fall in love with you.
What you don’t know is that she is not on the same page with you.
The truth is that she enjoys everything you do for her and she wants you to keep going on.
But she doesn’t want you to get attached because she is likely not going to give you what you want.
She knows that when she tells you that she just wants to have fun you will understand that she is not planning to indulge herself in a relationship with you.
It’s a way of telling you not to fall deeply for her because she is only seeking pleasure right now and not anything serious.
She is warning you not to go too deep because she will not pull you out.
What you should know is that girls know when a guy is falling for them.
She has observed you and noticed that you can’t focus on anything else other than her.
She is afraid if you get attached you might get hurt because she is not into what you are fighting for from her.
4. She is not ready for anything serious with you.
The moment a girl tells you that she is only in for you for the fun just know that she doesn’t want a serious relationship with you.
She has noticed you have been so focused on giving her the impression that you want more with her.
You are busy talking about your future with her.
This is not what she wants because she is not ready for any of that.
It can be that she thinks it is too early for her to put a label on the relationship she has going on with you.
She told you that she just wants to have fun for you to know that what you have is what will remain.
Don’t expect that she will introduce you to her parents and make the relationship official.
She is only with you because she enjoys what you offer. It doesn’t matter how she handles you, the only thing you should know is that she will never take things seriously.
It can be that you think she is so deeply into you and you feel that she is expecting something serious.
She told you that she wants to have fun so you know there is no way she will take the relationship to the next level.
You are only the guy she wants to have fun with for the moment and when the time is right or she no longer enjoys the fun, she will walk away from you.
Don’t expect that she will put tags and labels on what you have right now.
It’s like she is telling you if you find someone genuine go ahead and take her in your life.
And if she meets someone else, she will also do the same.
But for now, just enjoy the moment she has with you because that is what she is all about.
5. She doesn’t see a future with you.
When a girl says that she just wants to have fun with you and doesn’t want anything serious — she has observed and rated you.
You are not someone who can give her the kind of future she wants.
The only thing you are good for is the fun. Oh boy! You truly can give her the fun she is seeking.
She has noticed you are not good for anything else other than what you offer.
You are not the kind of a man she wants to be with because you aren’t ambitious.
She wants a guy who can take care of her financially and someone mature who understands what life entails.
When she looks at you, she only sees a guy who likes partying and drinking.
You don’t have your life figured out. Everything in your life is a mess but you don’t seem to be bothered by that.
The only thing you do is have fun with her.
What you talk about doesn’t make any sense to her.
You don’t seem like a responsible guy. She wants someone who she can start her life with, someone who can guide her and mold her into the person she wants to be.
The only thing she finds you to be good at is the fun you offer her and she wants things to remain that way.
To be honest, if she realized that you are a guy who can give her the future she wants, I don’t think she would have told you she only wants to have fun.
She would have been ready to commit to you, create a serious relationship with you, and hold you close.
You don’t align with what she wants and that is why she is telling you that she only wants to have fun.
She is using you for the moment, or you are just using each other, but when she manages to meet someone who can give her the future she is hoping for, that is when the fun will end.
You are not the kind of a guy she wants in her life and that is why she tells you this.
6. She may be so deep into someone else.
If a girl can’t give you what you want, she is giving it to someone else.
When she rejects you, she is giving the opportunity to someone else.
If she tells you that she just wants to have fun there is someone else she is offering everything.
She knows it will be tricky to give you all of her because she is offering that to someone else.
You are not her choice. She may be in love with you — ready to give you her body, but she loves someone else more than you.
She likes the attention you give her, it feels great to be around you but still, you are not the guy she wants to offer everything to.
It can be that she is hiding this from you because she knows you might stop giving her what she wants.
She wants to have fun — she only wants you inside her and nothing else.
If she tells you that she is planning to give someone else everything you don’t get, it will only upset you.
She doesn’t want you to distance yourself from her.
Lastly…
When a girl says that she only wants to have fun with you just know that she wants a casual thing with you.
Don’t expect that she will commit to you or give you everything you want.
She will give you her body but you will never get her commitment.
You can have her body but you will never have everything. There is no guarantee that she will stick with you.
You are for the moment, if she feels like walking away from you she will do it without thinking hard about it.
If a girl wants a casual relationship with you but you want more from her, don’t give in because you might fall deeply in love with her and expect more from her.
It doesn’t matter how long it will be, she will never give you what you want and this might hurt you badly.
But if she wants to have fun with you and you are down for that, do it but don’t fall in love with her.
She will not give you what you want and this might wreck you into pieces.
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