What Does It Mean When A Girl Texts You First?

A man smiles after receiving a text from a girl, the girl texted him first

When a girl texts you first does it mean anything? Does it mean she is interested in you?

 

You wake up with her “morning texts” and end the day with her “good night” texts.

 

She is not like the other girls you came across. You were the one who used to initiate conversations with them but now it’s the other way around.

 

The first thing you need to know is that when a girl initiates a conversation you are the kind of guy she would like to talk to.

 

She finds it easier to talk and connect to you and that is why she always texts you first.

 

You make her happy and keep her occupied and that is why she wants to keep the communication going.

 

What does it mean when a girl texts you first?

When a girl texts you first it means she likes talking to you because you always make her happy. She wants to keep the conversation going since you are an interesting person. Also, she usually thinks about you a lot, and that is why she reaches out.

 

In most cases, guys are the ones making the effort to start a conversation with girls.

 

Especially if it’s when you are getting to know each other. You will always reach out to her first.

 

But as time goes by she may start texting you first. When you stop texting she will want to know why you stopped.

 

Does it always mean that a girl is interested in you and that is why she initiates texts?

 

No! If a girl texts you first it doesn’t mean she is interested in you — wants you to be her boyfriend.

 

Continue reading there is more you need to know.

 

This is why she texts you first;

1. She enjoys talking to you.

A man smiles after receiving a text from a girl, the girl texted him first

 

When a girl texts you first it means she usually enjoys chatting with you.

 

You make her happy since your conversations with her through texts are captivating.

 

Apart from that, your vibe with her is just another level when you talk.

 

This makes her want to keep talking to you. When your conversation with her ends, she is usually looking forward to the next one.

 

The moment you notice that a girl keeps initiating messages, this shows that you talk to her nicely and you make her happy.

 

A girl will never text you first if she doesn’t enjoy talking to you.

 

You will always be the one who texts but there is no day she will reach out to you when you stop.

 

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This shows that you know how to capture her attention and talk about the things she enjoys the most.

 

2. She wants to keep the conversation going.

A girl will text you first when she is just curious about what you want to tell her.

 

For instance, if you met recently and asked for her number but she doesn’t know where your intention is, she will keep the conversation going.

 

She will keep talking to you just to put you in a position to express what you feel for her.

 

Also, she knows that if she keeps the chats going on between the two of you, you will open up to her.

 

What you need to know is that some girls just like texting. They will text you even when they have nothing to talk about.

 

So, if she reaches out to you but expects you to choose a topic to talk about with her, this shows that she just wants to keep the communication with you going.

 

It may be that she is not even interested in you but she just wants to keep the communication between the two of us going.

 

On the other side, she might have noticed that your texting patterns have changed — you no longer text first.

 

And she knows that if she doesn’t keep the texting coming the conversation you had will end there.

 

If it ends, there is no way she can find out what you wanted to tell her.

 

3. She wants your attention.

You may have been talking to her for a while and suddenly the vibe between the two of you fades.

 

This makes it harder for you to keep the chats going since the energy is not the same.

 

The way you connected and how the conversation flowed when you started talking isn’t the same.

 

You had lots of things to talk about with her, but nowadays after saying hi, you don’t know what next you should text her.

 

This minimized your texting habit with her — you rarely text her.

 

You stopped giving her the attention she used to get via texts.

 

She is now bored and wants your attention and that is why she texts you first.

 

When you read the texts carefully, she doesn’t have anything important to talk about.

 

She reaches out to you first and expects you to tell her some stories.

 

She sends you random photos of her for you to comment on and keep the chat going.

 

If this is what you have noticed after she has texted you — she wants attention since you no longer keep up with the chats the way you used to do.

 

A girl may text you first just because she is bored. She has no one to chat with but you.

 

Maybe her boyfriend is busy and she just wants to text you to keep her occupied for the moment.

 

4. She wants to get to know you better.

When a girl texts you first after you have exchanged phone numbers it shows that she is curious.

 

She wants to get to know you better and she knows that keeping you engaged will make you open up to her about yourself.

 

It can be that you have captured her attention — though you are a mystery to her.

 

She only knows your name but she wants to know more than that.

 

So, when she texts you first and starts telling you about herself, this is just a way to get you to tell her more about yourself.

 

If a girl doesn’t know you she will do everything she can to make you open up to her.

 

She will start asking you questions about what you do, what you like, and where you are from.

 

As she gets comfortable with you and notices that you don’t find it a big deal to talk to her, she will ask you personal questions.

 

Her curiosity is what is driving her now and that is why she makes the effort to reach out to you first via texts.

 

5. She cares about you.

When a girl texts you first, it’s a sign that she cares about you.

 

She wants to know how you are doing and if you need anything from her.

 

A girl who cares about you will never go for more than 2 days without reaching out to you.

 

She won’t wait for you to text her first to ask you about your progress.

 

So, if she has shown you any romantic gestures and now she is always waking you up with morning texts, just know that she cares more about you — she may be perceiving you more than a friend to her.

 

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Anyway, if she texts you first just to check out on you without demanding something else from you, she is genuine.

 

But if she initiates texts and asks you for favors, just know that she only reached out to you because she needed something.

 

If it wasn’t for the issues she is facing, she wouldn’t have texted you.

 

This is another important point to note.

 

6. She wants to get closer to you.

When a girl makes the effort to initiate texts every day, this shows that she is working on connecting with you.

 

She wants to get closer to you and make you comfortable around her.

 

I know in most cases it is usually guys who try their best to form a connection with women they are interested in.

 

Some girls also dare to approach guys and create a strong bond especially when they like the guy.

 

So, if she always texts you first, and talks to you about her life, her problems, past relationships, and family — she wants to get closer to you.

 

She is sure that these kinds of conversations will make you conclude that she is someone you can trust because she is vulnerable to you.

 

The moment you notice that you will also open up to her about your life and everything else that bothers you and makes you happy.

 

The more you open up to each other this will create a strong bond.

 

Whenever anything is driving you nuts you will always reach out to her and share it.

 

This is what she is working on and that is why she initiates texts.

 

7. She is interested in you.

Another reason you should know is that she is interested in you and that is why she texts you first.

 

When a girl likes you what you will notice is how hard she puts the effort to be around you.

 

If she can’t be close to you she will make sure she maintains the communication with you.

 

So, if she has been showing any romantic gestures — touches you randomly, buys you gifts, invites you to her place, and talks to you about her past relationships, this is a sign she wants more from you.

 

If she is always trying to get closer to you and makes excuses just to be around you, she is interested in you.

 

She wants you to express what you feel for her and that is why she keeps texting you first.

 

This is just a sign for you to realize that she is ready to commit to you.

 

Lastly…

When a girl texts you first the first thing you should do is observe what she says to you.

 

Does she want anything from you?

 

If she comes asking for favors just know that she only reached out to you because she is stranded.

 

This doesn’t mean that she cares about you at all. You are the guy she texts when she wants her needs fulfilled.

 

But if a girl texts you first just to check out on you, talks about random topics with you says how much she misses seeing you, and opens up to you, this shows that she cares about you and she may be interested too.

 

So, it is up to you to decide if you want something more with her or not.

 

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