Ali When a girl texts you first this may be a good sign but it depends on your relationship with her and on what stage you are in with her.
A girl may text you first because she needs something from you — she had to get in touch with you because she had no alternative.
In such a case you can’t say that she is into you simply because she texted you first and asked for something from you.
Another thing you should check on when a girl texts you first is the conversation she has with you.
What she says after she texts you first is the key to everything you want to unravel when it comes to how she feels about you and what she wants from you.
There are so many reasons why a girl would initiate texts, some may have something to do with how she feels and thinks about you while others are for her gains only.
You may not understand this now but as you continue reading you will understand what I mean.
But before all that, let me share what it means when a girl initiates texts.
What does it mean when a girl texts you first and then stops?
When a girl texts you first then suddenly stops it means she was only texting you because she wanted your attention but when she finally got someone else to keep her busy she decided to ditch you. It can also be that she lost interest in you after she found you didn’t meet her expectations.
She wanted something from you and that is why she was texting you first.
But when she got what she wanted and she didn’t have any use for you, she decided to direct her effort somewhere else.
What does it mean if a girl texts first?
When a girl texts you first it means she wants to talk to you since she enjoys every conversation with you, it’s easier for her to connect with you and you are an easy person to talk to.
If a girl texts you first the first thing always has something to do with her being in touch with you.
The communication between you is what drives her to reach out to you.
She wants to talk to you, keep the conversation going and maybe turn it into something else.
If a girl makes an effort to keep the communication going with you it’s because she has an end goal.
You will know it as long as you keep replying to the texts she sends you.
Before I go deep into this article, let me share some of the solid reasons why a girl would text you first.
This is why she texts you first;
1. She wants to get to know you.
If you have met a girl, talked for a while and she asked for your phone number and later on, she texted you — this is the first thing she has in mind.
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She has a goal that she wants to achieve and that is why she texted you first.
You don’t have any goals with her and that is why you aren’t that bothered to text her first every single day.
Maybe you aren’t interested in her the way she is in you.
If she made an effort to get a means of being in touch with you, she is just curious about you.
She doesn’t know anything about you and she just wants to use this chance to know more about you.
When you want something from someone you have to make an effort.
She is texting you first because she wants to get to know more about you.
The only way she can get you to start telling her more about yourself is by keeping the communication going.
She is aware that if she keeps texting you first it will also spark your curiosity — you will want to know her end game.
This will keep the conversation going and that is when you will start to share more.
Why would a girl want to know you?
If a girl is interested in you, she is just curious about you, she wants to befriend you and she wants to know the kind of a guy you are — she will want to know more about you.
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2. She likes talking to you.
If you have been talking for a while and you are close to each other — she is texting you first because she enjoys talking to you.
When a girl likes talking to you she will always reach out to you anytime she feels like it.
She won’t need a reason to text you first. You are someone who makes her happy, you are the dose of her day.
You make her happy, you make her stress-free and you always hit on point when it comes to the topics you choose to talk about with her.
When a girl enjoys talking to you she will always reach out to you even if she doesn’t have anything to say.
She will text you first to ask you what you are doing, about your day, and if anything is interesting you have encountered today.
The chats she will have with you will always be long and she will be super open to you about anything she is going through.
So, if she texts you but she doesn’t have anything important to share with you, this shows that she likes chatting with you.
You surely know how to make her day and that is why she always initiates chats.
If she didn’t like talking to you, you would have been the one making all the effort to be in touch with her.
You would have been calling and texting her every day but she wouldn’t have been doing that.
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She enjoys talking to you because you make her day, you bring the best out of her, and understand her better than anyone else.
If she is so close to you this is a sign that you hold an important part in her life and that is why she always initiates conversations.
3. She cares about you.
If a girl texts you first every day just to check up on you this shows that she cares about you so much.
She is reaching out to you because she always thinks about you and puts you on the top of her to-do list.
You are a priority to her and that is why she texts you first every day to see how you are holding up.
When a girl cares about you yet things between you are unclear, it may be a little bit confusing.
It will be super hard for you to know if she cares about you as a friend or if she feels something more for you.
She may be your friend but she may do things that make you question how she feels about you and perceives you.
A woman may care for you just as a friend but it may make you feel like she wants something more from you.
You can’t know for show until you check how she treats you, what she talks about, and how she handles herself before you.
She cares about you and that is why she makes the effort to initiate texts every day.
If you want to know if she cares about you as a friend or more than a friend, take your time to observe the words she says and things she does when she’s around you.
When a girl cares about you she will never go a day without getting in touch with you.
If a girl texts you first thing in the morning this shows that you mean the world to her, she cares about you and you have occupied a huge part in her life.
It may be a platonic or romantic thing she has on you — you won’t know for sure unless you find ways to make her open up to you about how she feels for you.
4. She is fishing for attention.
If a girl texts you first it doesn’t mean that she likes you.
For instance, if you haven’t been talking for a while and she suddenly reaches out to you claiming to miss you yet it doesn’t make sense — something is going on.
If there are no signs that she’s into you since she has never shown any interest in you or given you the gestures; she texted you first because she wants something from you.
You are now on the top of her to-do list because she wants something from you, the moment she gets it, she will stop texting you.
If a girl texts you first and starts to sweet talk you yet you know there is no connection between you, she just wants your attention.
She is probably bored, the guys she used to chat with have ditched her and she is now running to you because she knows you are into her.
The truth is that she knows how you feel about her and she is taking advantage of that.
For any man, if a girl you have a crush on texts you first it will feel thrilling.
You will think that she is now getting in your zone because she has you on her radar.
This will make you drop everything and keep her busy and entertained thinking that you are winning her eventually after all that time.
It’s not that she texted you first because she is now into you, she only wants your attention and that is why you matter to her.
The moment the guys she has been yearning for hits her inbox after a while, she will stop texting you first.
The communication between the two of you will start fading slowly and she will eventually stop replying to your texts.
So, if she texts you first yet you know that she has never shown you any romantic gestures or any signs that she is into you — she wants your attention.
She is bored and she has no one to text and that is why she has started texting you first.
5. She finds it easier to talk to you.
If a girl texts you first and keeps a longer and deeper conversation with you this shows that she finds it easier to talk to you.
You are someone she can talk to for hours because you relate with her when it comes to a lot of the things she shares with you.
Your understand of of the things she talks to you about blows her away.
You get her better than the guys she talks to and that is why she makes the point of reaching out to you.
She doesn’t have to explain herself when she is making a point to you via texts because you understand her.
You are easier to talk to because you don’t push her away or say things that hurt her feelings.
Your conversations with her are always epic, you listen to her and say things that make her happy.
If she has a problem you always help her see the light, this keeps her locked with you and that is why she texts you first every day since she wants to keep the communication going.
When a girl finds out that you are an easy person to talk to, you relate with so many things she shares and you make her feel special when talking to you — she will always initiate conversations with you.
She will text and call you every time because you are an interesting person to talk to.
6. She wants to create a connection with you.
If a girl wants to create a connection with you be it romantic or platonic, the first thing she will do is maintain the communication with you.
She knows that when she keeps texting you first it will push you to get used to her.
You will start feeling comfortable around her as the communication keeps going on and this will make you open up to her about anything she wants to know.
The more you talk to someone the more you know them and the easier it becomes for you to let yourself loose around them.
Observe the things she talks about, how she handles you, and what she suggests while chatting with you.
That will give you an idea about why she is so glued to you.
If she texts you first and talks about her life and encourages you to open up too — she wants to connect with you.
This is a way of her getting closer to you for you to let her in.
Lastly…
If a girl texts you first it doesn’t necessarily mean she is interested in you. She may be initiating texts because she wants something from you or she is just bored and you are the only person she can talk to.
Don’t just assume that if a girl texts you first it means she is into you, observe her messages, what she suggests, and how she handles herself before you.
A woman texting you first isn’t a reason enough for you to conclude that is interested in you.
You will know how she feels about you when you push her to open up about how she feels for you.
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