Ali When a girl is comfortable around you it can mean a lot of things. But the first thing you should know is that your relationship with her is on another level.
The way you handle each other is what makes her feel completely free around you.
You have given her a reason to be herself around you because she feels you match her energy.
The two of you are just a vibe of another level and that is why she feels this way around you.
She doesn’t have to pretend to be someone else to make you happy.
You understand each other in ways other people don’t.
The way you handle yourselves around each other has never conflicted you — the two of you can do and say anything you feel like without feeling restricted.
Anyway, there is more you need to know when a girl feels comfortable around you.
What does it mean when a girl is comfortable around you?
When a girl is comfortable around you it means the two of you are a vibe — she feels like she can be herself around you because she doesn’t have to pretend she is someone else to please you.
This clearly shows that your relationship with her is super amazing.
You guys understand each other deeply — that’s why you connect in ways that are beyond a normal relationship (be it platonic or romantic).
When a girl feels comfortable it shows that she doesn’t have to hide who she is when she is next to you.
She does and says anything she feels like since she knows you will never question her, you will never get angry at her for behaving the way she does or saying the things she does.
So, when you notice a girl letting herself loose around you, this surely shows that she is completely comfortable around you.
When you notice a girl behaving like a kid around you, she is chicky and always joking a lot just to make you smile and does things to irritate you so that you talk so much about her behavior — she is super comfortable with you.
Now that you know what it means when a girl is comfortable around you, it’s time for you to know why she feels this way.
This is why she feels comfortable around you;
1. Your relationship with her is on good terms (platonic or romantic).
When a girl is comfortable around you the first thing it has to do with the relationship you have with her.
If she is herself when around you and she can do and talk about anything she feels like, this shows that your relationship with her is amazing.
You guys connect deeply, understand each other, and handle each other the way you want.
For a girl to feel at ease around you the relationship between the two of you has to be great.
For this kind of relationship to hold roots, it usually takes so much time.
If you have developed this kind of relationship with her within a few months, you are a vibe.
This is when you should just open up to her about how you feel for her if you want her to be your girlfriend.
If it gets more than comfortable, you won’t be able to change this relationship because whatever you will do or say, will feel like you aren’t serious.
When you get used to someone, it will reach a point where you won’t believe anything serious they tell you.
What you will conclude is that they are joking. They are only saying what they do just to trick you, make fun of you, or what they say doesn’t reflect on how you perceive them.
This is when a girl will tell you that you are like a brother to her and she can’t change how she feels about that.
If she is your girlfriend and she feels this way around you, this shows that your relationship with her is on another level.
She is so in love with you, she is so happy to be around you, you bring the best out of her and handle her the way she likes.
Your presence makes her feel alive. This is what makes her feel free and at ease whenever you are around.
2. She enjoys spending time with you.
When a girl feels comfortable around you the second thing you should know is that she enjoys spending her time with you.
When it comes to the two of you together, it’s just easy for you to connect.
You make her happy — you give her a reason to smile, laugh, and let herself loose when around you.
When it’s the two of you time flies. You can spend hours together doing nothing other than looking at each other, but it feels like you have had the best time ever.
It’s not your actions or words — it’s your presence around each other that makes her complete.
She may have planned to be around you for 5 hours, but even when the first 5 hours are exhausted, she still won’t go.
When you remind her that she has to go, she will add another one or two hours just to enjoy being around you.
And it’s not that you are doing anything super exciting to keep her around.
You may just be chilling on the sofa or bed, but she just wants to continue being around with you.
This all happens because she enjoys spending her time with you.
3. She finds it easier to talk to you.
You are the person she can talk to about anything she feels like.
It doesn’t matter whether it is something super important or describing to you how she cooked an overcooked meal last night.
You are the kind of guy who listens to what she says without cutting her off or making her feel that she is talking nonsense.
When she feels like telling you about how everything in her life is progressing, she knows you get her.
She knows you will listen to her and give her the advice she needs to hear.
You always give her the chance to talk about anything with you.
This makes her feel unrestricted around you thus making her comfortable with you.
You are always attentive whenever she tells you anything and you never dismiss her during conversations.
When a girl is comfortable around you — it all has to do with what she does and says around you.
So, finding it easier to talk to you about anything she feels like contributes to this feeling.
4. You open up to her about sensitive details of your life.
When a girl feels comfortable around you it usually shows that she feels safe with you.
Deep down she knows that no matter what happens, you will never hurt her.
For a girl to feel safe next to you, she has to be sure that you will never do anything to hurt her.
She has to be certain that you will never do anything to put her in harm’s way.
You can’t make a girl feel safe around you when you have so much to hide.
The moment you don’t let her see the other side of your life, the things you are going through, and your highs and lows; she won’t feel safe around you.
When you open up to her about the sensitive details of your life — you let her see and know your flaws, and this assures her that she can trust you.
The moment a girl trusts you, you can ask her to do anything for you — even hurt someone for you and she will do it without a second thought as long as she knows you are doing it for a good reason.
If a girl knows that you don’t have anything to hide from her, she will do anything for you, she will let herself loose around you and she will never be worried when she is next to you.
All this has something to do with how she feels being around next to you.
You have been honest with her about yourself, you have been opening up to her about your life and this made it clear to her that you have nothing to hide.
This made it easier for her to trust you completely. With this information, she feels that you have made yourself vulnerable to her.
Once a girl notices that you are revealing your weak spots to her, it’s enough to make her feel safe and at ease around you.
5. You encourage her to be herself around you.
When a girl feels comfortable around you it also has to do with how you allow her to handle herself next to you.
The feeling of comfort is brought about by how a girl handles herself around you.
She is comfortable because you allow her to showcase her energy.
You encourage her to reveal the kind of person she is without hiding a single flaw.
This means you let her behave in any way she feels like when she is next to you — be it silly, childish, or mature.
You allow her to handle herself in a way that brings the best out of her.
This makes her feel unrestricted because she doesn’t have to hide who she is to please you.
This is another reason why she feels comfortable around you.
When she is with you she is not worried that she will either say or do anything that will hurt your feelings.
She knows you encourage her to be honest about the kind of person she is and you accept her for who she is — this makes her feel completely comfortable around you.
6. You don’t judge her.
This is another reason why she feels at ease when she is next to you.
You don’t judge her beliefs, and what she does and say when she is next to you.
You always keep an open mind when it comes to what she does and says when next to you.
Even when she talks and does things that are against what you believe in, you don’t judge her.
Instead of judging her, you always listen to her and try to reason with her.
You aren’t the kind of a guy who jumps to conclusions when she says something that doesn’t fit your description.
This makes her feel that she can be herself when it comes to expressing her opinions about anything she feels like.
Another thing you do to make her feel this way when she is next to you is this; you don’t use her past to define her.
You are aware of the things she has done in the past but you handle her for the person she is right now and not for who she was.
Nothing you do or say makes her feel that you are judging how she lives and the principles she holds onto.
You let her be who she is and do what she thinks is right for her.
Lastly…
When a girl feels comfortable around you it shows that your relationship with her is super great.
If she is someone you are interested in and you have noticed that she feels comfortable around you, make a point of expressing what you feel for her.
Don’t let her get so comfortable around you because it might end up being harder for you to change how she thinks and perceives you.
If a girl feels at ease next to you just know you are doing the right thing when it comes to how you treat her.
This is a measure of how amazing she feels when she is with you. You make her day complete.
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