Ali When a guy tells you about his whereabouts he wants you to know where he is.
Sometimes, there might be a hidden meaning when he shares with you his whereabouts, but sometimes it may just be plain.
In this article, I will share why a guy would share his location with you.
If you know why he does it, you will be one step ahead of him thus making it easier for you to understand his intentions.
Before I tell you why he does it, let me share the meaning with you.
What does it mean when a guy tells you about his whereabouts?
When a guy tells you about his whereabouts it means he wants you to know his location so that you can meet him up and another reason why he does this is just to gain your trust.
If a guy tells you that he is just around, the next thing he will ask you is if you will be able to meet him up.
Also, when you know that he is close and you want to meet up with him and hang out, you will do it.
It can be that he knows that you always want to know where he is when you talk.
He wants to make things easier for you to stop guessing his location and asking the same question over and over again.
Anyway, there are more reasons why a guy would tell you about his whereabouts.
Let me explain in detail for you to understand what he is pulling.
This is why he tells you about his whereabouts;
1. He wants to gain your trust.
If a guy starts sharing with you details that he doesn’t have to this is the first thing you should know; he wants to gain your trust.
Firstly, it depends on your relationship with him.
If he is your boyfriend and recently you had issues because of him not sharing his location with you, this could be why he is now doing it.
For instance, if he went out without telling you about it and when you found out you got angry and it brought about a conflict, he wants to fix issues.
He knows that telling you about his whereabouts will rebuild the trust in that relationship because you will start assuming that he is open to you.
He wants to fix things and sharing with you about his location won’t be the last thing he will.
Also, you will realize that he starts telling you things that he didn’t use to just to get you to trust him again.
He knows the only way to get you to trust him again is by finding out the truth about his location first before you ask him.
On the other hand, if he is just a guy friend, he wants you to know that he will always be honest with you.
It can be that he is working towards winning your heart and he wants you to trust him.
He knows that it will be easier for him to win you when you trust him fully.
It’s like he is telling you that he is an open book and you don’t have to worry about him.
If he is not hanging out with you, he wants you to know that he is not making moves on someone else somewhere.
It can be that he thinks you always think that when he is not with you, he is with someone else somewhere.
His trips here and there make you question a lot of things he does out there.
2. He wants to meet you up.
If a guy talks to you and suddenly tells you his whereabouts just know that he wants to meet you up.
He won’t just talk about his location if you haven’t asked him without an intention in mind.
When a guy tells you where he is the second thing he will want to know is your location too.
If he knows that you are closer to him, he will ask you if you can meet him up and say hi.
Instead of him asking you out on a date with him, he wants to make it seem easier for you.
It can be that he thinks if he asks you out on a date with him, it will scare you.
So, he doesn’t want it to look like he is asking you out on a date.
He may not ask you to meet him, but you may be tempted to.
For instance, if you want to meet him but you always know he is far away from you when he tells you that he is around you will think of meeting him.
You will be like, “You are around my location, can we meet up and catch up?”
If you want to hang out with him you won’t hold yourself if he is at a location you can get to.
3. He wants you to know everything he does.
This is another reason why he shares with you his whereabouts; he wants you to know what he does whenever he is not around you.
When a guy wants to connect to you and make you feel comfortable around him the first thing he will do is be an open book to you.
He will start sharing with you things that you didn’t even ask him to.
Deep down he knows that when he opens up to you about everything he does you will find him to be trustworthy and you will also open up to him.
If he wants to get to know you better, it will be easier for you to let him know everything about you too.
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Since he tells you about things that he does, you will also find it easier to share with him what he wants to know.
When a guy tells you his whereabouts the follow-up thing he will talk about is what he is doing there.
And if he keeps sharing it with you whenever you talk, you will always know what he is up to.
Anyway, when a guy wants you to know everything he does wherever he is, it’s just a way of letting you know what surrounds his life.
He wants you to know the things he is involved in. When you know what he does out there, you will know his entire schedule.
4. He wants you to know that he is safe.
He doesn’t want you to worry about him and that is why he tells you about his whereabouts.
Maybe he knows that you will be worried if he doesn’t come to you early.
For instance, if it’s getting late and he is not where you expected him to be, this will stress you.
You will be concerned about his safety because it’s not a usual thing for him to be that late out.
So, when a guy doesn’t want you to worry about his safety, he will tell you his whereabouts.
You will know where he is and if anything unexpected happens, you will know how to find him.
It can be that you haven’t been in touch for a while and you are wondering how he is doing.
He is telling you about his whereabouts so that you know he is safe wherever he is.
So, that you don’t worry so much about him at all.
Lastly…
When a guy tells you about his whereabouts when he doesn’t have to, just know that he is about to ask you to meet up.
If you know that he is closer to your location, you might also be tempted to ask him to meet you up.
But if he lied to you earlier about his location and you found out and it broke the foundation of trust between the two of you, he is doing this to regain your trust.
He knows that the only way for you to start trusting him is if he tells you his location and what he does out there.
When a guy wants to make you find it easier to open up to him about anything that bothers you, he will start by opening up to you about everything that is going on in his life.
If he is getting to know you, he wants to gain your trust and make you feel safe to talk about anything with him.
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