Ali If your girlfriend keeps saying she is ugly, you need to do something to change how she thinks about herself.
This doesn’t work to your advantage, if you don’t take care of how she feels about herself, this might wreck your relationship into pieces.
In this article, I will share with you several things to do if your girlfriend says she is ugly.
You have the power to change how she thinks about herself.
What to do when your girlfriend keeps saying she is ugly;
1. Start complimenting your girlfriend.
Your girlfriend keeps saying she is not beautiful because you don’t compliment her.
What your girlfriend feels about her looks has a lot to say with how she thinks about how you perceive her.
You are in a relationship with her. She won’t seek validation from someone else.
The two of you are in a relationship — her physical appearance matters the most when it comes to pleasing you.
She wants you to see her attractive. This means every effort she puts on her body is just for you to notice it.
If she wears makeup, puts on a new dress, and changes her hairstyle, she is doing all these things for you to validate her.
She wants you to notice her beauty and acknowledge it.
What you have to understand is that women care so much about their physical appearance.
If a girl finds that her boyfriend is happy with how she looks, it doesn’t matter if anyone else says the opposite of what her boyfriend thinks.
Your girlfriend keeps saying she is ugly because you don’t give her the validation she wants.
You rarely comment on how amazing she looks.
She expects you to shower her with compliments of how beautiful she is to you.
Your girlfriend wants you to randomly tell her how she turns you on when she dresses in a certain way.
She makes an effort to look beautiful for you but you don’t even notice it.
So, if you want her to stop saying she is ugly, start complimenting her.
Give her genuine compliments and this is enough for her to stop her from saying the words she says about her physical appearance.
You know how beautiful she is to you and that is why you took her into your life.
Let her know how you perceive her. When she tries something new to just look pretty for you, let her know about it.
Look at her face closely when you are about to kiss her and tell her how cute she is.
These random compliments are what is going to stop your girlfriend from saying that she is ugly.
2. Start introducing her to your friends and family.
The way you interact with your girlfriend when your friends or family are around is enough to make her conclude what she does.
She keeps saying she is ugly because you hide her from your friends and family.
Maybe you don’t have the intention of hiding her from your family or friends but she thinks that way.
When you meet up with your friends you don’t introduce her to them.
You either leave your girlfriend behind and talk to them or you avoid doing anything that will show them you are with her.
If you have been hiding your girlfriend from your friends or family, one of the things she can conclude is that you are embarrassed with her.
She is not the charming princess to introduce to your friends or family.
You feel that your friends will make fun of you when they notice that the girl you have been holding hands with is your girlfriend.
Since you don’t want to be embarrassed and laughed at for dating an ugly woman, you hide her from your friends and family.
This is what your girlfriend thinks and that is why she keeps saying she is ugly.
If you want her to stop saying that she is ugly don’t hide her from your family or friends.
Proudly introduce her to them, take her with you to their events, and always hold her close when you are around them.
This is enough to make her feel that you are not embarrassed by her.
It will increase her confidence when it comes to what she thinks about her physical appearance.
This is enough to stop her from saying she is not attractive.
3. Go out on dates with her frequently.
Your girlfriend keeps saying she is ugly because you don’t go out with her frequently.
With women, it is easier for them to confuse one thing with another.
If you don’t go out with her frequently, she may conclude she is not beautiful and that you want to be seen with her or you are seeing someone else.
You have to go out on dates with her frequently and show her that she is the beautiful woman you would everyone in the world to see you with.
When you are out with her don’t be afraid to show her your affection in public (as long as she is comfortable with it).
Hold her hands, kiss her, and hold her waist. This is enough to make her conclude she is beautiful.
Words alone won’t stand a chance to change her mind about what she thinks about herself.
You need to instill something different in her head for her to think differently about her body.
When you show your girlfriend that you are not embarrassed to show her off to the world, she will stop saying she is ugly.
4. Spice up your romantic touch with her.
The way you handle your girlfriend also plays a big role in how she thinks about her physical appearance.
Women do everything they can to look attractive for men to want them romantically.
Nowadays we have women who have surgery just to change their appearance — to look more attractive.
We have those who increase the size of their chest and butt for them to seem more sexier.
Without forgetting those who spend hours every single day in a gym just put their bodies into shape.
One of the reasons is for them to be healthy but the other one is also for them to be attractive.
If a woman does all these things to look pretty for you, you need to show her that you notice that.
Words alone won’t be enough to make her realize that you find her sexier.
You need romantic actions to show her that you find her body attractive.
Show her that you want and need her body and that she turns you on whenever she turns around or looks at you.
For this to happen you need to focus on her body when you romance with her.
This will require you to caress her body, kiss her on every part of her body, and explore her entire body.
Let her see that her body captures your attention and feelings.
Take a great romantic interest in her body and spice up the romance.
This is enough to make her stop saying she is ugly. When she notices that not only you love her body but yearns for it, it will make her think positively about her physical appearance.
5. Reassure her that she is the best woman you have ever had in your life.
Another thing you can do to stop your girlfriend from saying she is not beautiful is to reassure her.
If you used to tell her how great she was and you stopped, you have to revive this.
When you were pursuing her you explained yourself and let her know why you wanted to be with her.
You told her how crazy she drove you and you couldn’t think of anything else but to be around her.
But when she agreed to be your girlfriend, you stopped telling her all that.
You stopped reminding her why you are still with her.
As time goes by the sense of her being an incredible and attractive woman to you changes.
You are now so comfortable with each other that you say things that undermine how she thinks about her body.
Women need reassurance for them to be intact and continue believing that you still feel the same way about them.
If you want your girlfriend to continue thinking that she is still the most attractive girl you have ever had in your life, you need to keep selling the speech.
Maybe it’s not true that she is the most attractive woman you have ever had in your life, just keep saying it until you also believe it.
You need to make her feel at her best if you want her to stop saying she is ugly.
Continue reassuring her that she is a jewel and a priceless pearl.
Women need this to make them feel that they are still attractive.
6. Stop entertaining other women.
What you do also plays a big role when it comes to what your girlfriend says about her physical appearance.
If you are busy entertaining other women in front of her instead of giving her your attention, she will conclude she is not beautiful.
She is not beautiful enough to get your attention and that is why you aren’t even ashamed to entertain other girls even when she is around you.
What you should know is that all women are jealous.
Don’t convince yourself that your girlfriend is not jealous because she told you so.
Some women are jealous but they don’t show it directly, but that doesn’t mean that they aren’t.
You may be surprised later on that she is angry at you but she doesn’t want to tell you why.
It’s not that you did something to annoy her, it’s only because you were talking to another girl earlier.
When you entertain other girls when your girlfriend is around she will be jealous and feel insecure.
The jealousy will convince her that she is not as attractive as the girls you were entertaining, while insecurity will ascertain her that you might end up leaving her for someone prettier.
She will conclude that you only talk and entertain these girls because they are more beautiful than she is.
You give them all your attention and forget that your woman is next to you because they seem more attractive than her.
If you want your girlfriend to stop saying that she is ugly, stop paying attention to other girls and focus only on her.
Don’t entertain other girls at all. Don’t do anything with other women that will make her think you don’t find her attractive.
When you are with your girlfriend, show her that you are present for her and not other women.
This is enough to stop your girlfriend from thinking that you don’t find her attractive. She will stop saying she is ugly.
7. Don’t stare and compliment other women when she is around.
If you want your girlfriend to stop saying she is ugly you need to stop staring at other women.
It can be that your girlfriend notices this every time she goes out with you.
You don’t pay attention to her because you are so busy looking at other women out there.
When you are staring at other women’s bodies she will conclude you are attracted to them.
This is why you don’t even give her your attention. She will start feeling so low about herself.
So, if you want your girlfriend to stop saying she is ugly, don’t stare at other women.
If you stop staring at other women when your girlfriend is around you, there is no way you will get a chance to compliment them.
I told you earlier that women are jealous. If you start talking highly about the women you see out there, it will be enough for your girlfriend to conclude you find them more attractive than her.
It will be hard for her to think highly of herself because when you are out there with her the only thing you do is stare at other women.
Sometimes it can be hard not to turn your head to look at the pretty woman who walked past you, but you have to control yourself.
When you are with your girlfriend just keep your opinions about other women’s appearances to yourself unless she asks you.
If you are with your friends you can comment all you want about the women you stare at in the streets, but with your girlfriend, don’t dare talk about that.
8. Stop making funny comments about her physical appearance.
You may be making random jokes about her physical appearance thinking that she thinks it’s funny.
You make jokes and she laughs at them and you think she is cool with that.
But as time goes by it’s installed in her mind that the funny comments you make about her physical appearance reflect how you see her.
It may be a way to make her laugh or maybe your friends and family to do so too, but it hurts her feelings.
Stop making jokes about her body if you want her to stop saying she is ugly.
She may not tell you that she hates them because she doesn’t want you to feel bad since you are making an effort to make her smile or your friends.
If she tells you that she doesn’t like the jokes you make in front of your friends she may embarrass you.
She doesn’t want to do that and that is why she is not saying anything.
It can be that your girlfriend has low self-esteem and that is why this affects her but you have no idea.
So, stop making the funny comments about her body if you want her to stop saying she is ugly.
Lastly…
If your girlfriend keeps saying she is ugly the first thing you should know is that her self-esteem is low.
Try your best to change how she sees and thinks about her body and you will manage to stop her from saying she is not beautiful.
The next thing you can do to stop your girlfriend from saying she is ugly is to stop doing things that will make her feel she is not attractive.
Don’t pay attention to other women, don’t compliment other women, and don’t entertain them.
You need to show her that you love her body and you always need it by intensifying your romance with her.
Make the habit of complimenting her and randomly initiate romantic touches when she least expects them, this is how you will stop your girlfriend from saying she is ugly.
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