Why She Wants To Be Friends After Rejecting You

A girl talking to man after she rejected her

You were so deeply in love with her so you asked her to be your girlfriend but she rejected you, but now she wants you to be her friend.

 

She insists that she still wants you around as a friend when you are entirely in love with her.

 

If she doesn’t want anything to do with you, why would she ask you to be her friend?

 

In this article, I will share with you some of the reasons why she wants you to be a buddy even after she has rejected you.

 

This is why she wants to be friends after rejecting you;

1. She feels guilty for rejecting you.

A girl talking to man after she rejected her

 

The first thing you should know is that she feels guilty for rejecting you and that is why she wants you to be friends.

 

She is not into you and that is why she said no. Thinking about how close you were made her realize that she hurt your feelings.

 

The thing is that she can’t offer what you want from her. She doesn’t feel the same way you do for her.

 

To wash away her guilt and make herself feel good about the answer she gave you she wants you around as a friend.

 

She knows that having you around — she will have the chance to be nicer to you, hang out with you, and buy you gifts to make you feel good.

 

If you are far from her it will only keep hurting her because she won’t get the chance to wash the guilt away.

 

So, when a girl wants to friend zone you after she has rejected you, this has nothing to do with how she feels about you or the friendship she is putting on the plate, it’s about her.

 

She wants you around to make herself feel great about what she did yet she knows she hurt your feelings.

 

2. She truly likes you as a friend.

It can be that you were close to each other and this left a mark in her heart. She likes you so much but as only a friend.

 

You had good times together, you were there for each other but that changed after she rejected you.

 

She misses you, she feels lonely without you, and wants to take things back to how they were.

 

The truth is that she doesn’t have romantic feelings for you but you were her genuine friend.

 

Deep down she knows that rejecting you made you distance yourself from her.

 

She wants to delete the distance between the two of you and that is why is offering you a hand of friendship.

 

Maybe you were only friends with her because you were fighting to win her heart.

 

Things didn’t work out, but how you handled her made her happy and she is not ready to let the friendship end simply because she doesn’t have feelings for you.

 

3. She wants your attention.

A woman with curly hair sitting on bed while a man behind him lays down

When you were trying so hard to win her heart you were giving her so much attention.

 

You were always calling her, you slept in her DMs and hung out with her frequently.

 

What you did was focus on her and nothing else mattered when she was around.

 

You shared so much, you took care of her and made her feel special.

 

She got used to this and she loved it. But when you expressed your feelings for her and she told you that she doesn’t feel the same for you, things changed.

 

You stopped giving her the attention you used to. Things between the two of you are no longer the same.

 

She no longer gets your morning and evening texts, you don’t call her and you don’t even want to be around her anymore.

 

If you see her from afar you take a turn.

 

Maybe the attention you gave her was top-notch. She is not getting the same services from the other guys she is talking to.

 

It can be that she told you that she has a boyfriend and that is why she rejected you.

 

The thing is that her guy doesn’t give her the attention she used to get from you.

 

She wants that attention and you are the only one who can give it to her.

 

If she is single but rejected you — she is lonely right now because you are not there to talk to her, make her laugh, and walk her around the city.

 

She wants you to be her friend not because she cares about you but only because she wants your attention.

 

4. She is just lonely.

If she is single but rejected you because of her reasons, it can be that she has realized she is super lonely.

 

You are no longer there to take her around and have fun with her as you used to.

 

When you realize that she doesn’t feel the same for you, the option you had was to walk away from her.

 

You don’t reply to her texts, you don’t call her frequently as you used to and you don’t even go over to her place anymore.

 

She rejected you but she doesn’t want to be lonely. The only way to make herself feel occupied is by having you around.

 

You did everything to ensure she was happy whenever you were with her.

 

But after a few weeks of no contact between the two of you, she feels so bored because she was used to having you around.

 

Things don’t seem as they were. In an attempt to get over her loneliness, she wants you to be friends.

 

She knows that if you accept to be her friend you will do everything you used to do for her.

 

You are going to be the person she calls when is bored and wants someone to hang out with.

 

She is just afraid of being lonely and that is why she wants you around as a friend.

 

5. She is keeping you around as her backup plan.

A man holding a man pen while thinking

She may have rejected you because she doesn’t have feelings for you right now.

 

But she still has a liking for you because the vibe is just on another level when you are around each other.

 

You connect in a way she doesn’t connect with other guys out there.

 

She loses herself when she is around you, she feels complete and comfortable with you.

 

You make her see the best in herself and you are always the reason she is smiling every single day.

 

Deep down she knows that she might end up changing her mind and say yes to you later on.

 

She knows that if she lets you walk away from her, she will lose touch with you.

 

This will increase the distance between the two of you, the connection you had will fade and eventually, you will find someone else.

 

If you move on it will be harder for her to drag you back into her life.

 

She doesn’t want this to happen at all and that is why she wants you to be her friend even after she said no to you.

 

If she changes her mind in the future, she will give you a chance.

 

But for now, she wants you around as her backup plan.

 

6. She wants to know how you feel after rejecting you.

She rejected you but she wants to know what you still feel about her.

 

Women are this complicated sometimes. She doesn’t want to be with you but she wants to know what you think of her.

 

So, if a girl wants to know if you want her around or not after rejecting you, she will do this; ask you to be her friend.

 

The truth is that if you are hurt deep inside, you won’t even think of being closer to her.

 

You will want to distance yourself from her to move on from the pain she caused.

 

Your reaction is what she will use to know how you feel about her. If you don’t want anything to do with her because she rejected you, you won’t accept to be her friend.

 

She will use that to judge how you feel about her.

 

If you accept to be her friend even after she said no to your request, she will know that you are still in love with her and you are hoping that she will change her mind about you in the future.

 

So, if a girl wants you to be her friend even after rejecting you, she is just curious about how you feel after the incident.

 

7. She wants to use you.

A woman holding an umbrella for a man in a desert

You need to be careful when a girl comes back after rejecting you and asking you to be her friend.

 

She knows that you have feelings for her and she might use that to exploit you.

 

You are in love with her and you are likely to be open to any suggestions she may have.

 

If she has the intention of manipulating you, it will be hard for you to realize because you are blinded by what you feel for her.

 

You will be willing to give her anything she needs thinking that she might change her mind about you.

 

If she comes to you with her issues and asks you to help her out, you will quickly do it because you think she is confiding in you.

 

She is opening up to you about her problems because she adores you, but that is not the case.

 

You are someone she is using to clear her issues. Since you are in love with her you will do anything she wants you to.

 

She might start asking you to buy her things, take her out, and even ask you for money to clear her bills.

 

You still want to show her that you can be the man she wants you to be, you open your wallet and get her everything she needs.

 

So, if a girl wants to be your friend after she has rejected you just be careful not to fall into this trap I am talking about.

 

Lastly…

If a girl rejects you and wants to be friends you need to think of how that is going to affect you.

 

When you know that you can be around her without hurting yourself by going over and over about what happened then give it a go.

 

But if you think being around her will only keep hurting you don’t invite her into your life.

 

She wanted nothing to do with you, focus on your life and find someone else who will take you in.

 

You may think that she cares about you and that is why she wants to be friends but she is only using you for the moment.

 

It will be hard for you to see through her because you still have feelings for her.

 

You need to observe her before you assume anything.

 

In my opinion, I don’t think it’s the best idea to be friends with someone you have feelings for.

 

You will end up wanting more from her which you won’t get thus hurting you so badly.

 

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