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Your girlfriend is so friendly to other guys and this just disturbs the hell out of you.
She hangs out and talks to other guys frequently and this makes you uncomfortable.
You are afraid to tell her that you don’t like the idea of her hanging out with other guys because she might start suggesting other things.
Your issue is that she pays too much attention to other guys but you have no idea of how to approach this issue.
So, should you just break up with her because she is too friendly to other guys?
Should I break up with my girlfriend for being too friendly?
No! You should not break up with your girlfriend simply because she is too friendly with other guys, instead, you should be honest with her about what she does. Let her know that it makes you uncomfortable.
The solution is not breaking up with her but working things out between the two of you.
Would you be happy if your girlfriend broke up with you simply because you were talking while laughing to another girl?
This seems immature, you can’t just end a relationship simply because your partner is friendly to another person.
We all have things that annoy us and make us jealous and insecure though they don’t threaten our relationship.
You are a human being, you can’t run away from these feelings especially when you are so much in love with your partner.
If you break up with your girlfriend and find someone else, the same thing will happen.
Do you want to tell me that you will be jumping from one relationship to another since your partner gets along well with other guys?
Maybe your girlfriend is social and that is why he talks and hangs out with these guys.
She may even have no idea that you feel threatened by what she does.
So, what should you do when your girlfriend is too friendly to other guys?
This is what to do when your girlfriend is too friendly to other guys;
1. Give your girlfriend the attention she wants.
Your girlfriend is too friendly to other guys because you may not be giving her the attention she wants.
You are super busy chasing your dreams and making money while you completely forget that your woman needs you too.
It’s okay to chase your goals but you also need to check out on your girlfriend.
If your girlfriend feels lonely because you are too busy, she will understand that.
She won’t push you to stop working to just give her attention. She knows that what you do matters.
Instead, she will seek attention from other guys who are interested in her.
So, if you find that your girlfriend is too friendly to so many guys just know it’s about the attention.
The guys give her the attention she misses from you. Though they are just friends, they shower her with compliments.
It makes her feel great. She is your girlfriend but you don’t even recognize the simple changes she makes on her body to look beautiful for you.
She has no choice but to be too friendly with these guys.
So, if you don’t give her any attention, you should change that and observe how she is going to behave.
When she gets your attention, you spend most of your time with her and make her realize you notice everything she does to make you happy, she won’t have time to interact with other guys.
You will be her best friend, her man, and everything she wants.
Women love it when you give them attention. If she doesn’t get it she will search it somewhere else.
What if it’s not about the attention?
2. Be honest with her about what you feel about what she does.
Your girlfriend is friendly to other guys but nothing fishy is going on.
She is super honest and trustworthy to you. She is not capable of cheating on you.
What she does makes you uncomfortable and insecure. You feel like keeping this to yourself will only hurt your feelings.
The best thing you have to do here is to talk to her. Let her know what you feel and think about what she does.
If it hurts and makes you uncomfortable let her know about it.
The moment your girl knows that what she does hurts your feelings she will stop it.
She will do that because she cares about your feelings.
But if you won’t talk to her about it, this will keep on going and you will be the only one to blame.
You are in a relationship, if anything doesn’t feel right for you open up to your partner.
Communicate with her and find a way to ease things up. The solution is not to break up with her.
3. Work out any issues between the two of you.
If your relationship has issues it’s best you work on them if you don’t want to lose her.
The two of you are distant from each other right now, the vibe is fading and your girlfriend is searching for a way to cope with it.
Since you no longer focus on each other, your girlfriend feels lonely.
She can’t hang out and talk to you the way you used to. There is a negative tension pulling you away from each other.
This leaves her no choice but to lean towards the guy friends she has around.
She hangs out and talks to them so much just to get over what is going on between the two of you.
If you want your girlfriend to stop being so friendly to other guys, work out your relationship with her and pull her to your side.
Trust me, she won’t have the time to divide her attention to other guys because she will give it all to you.
4. Ask her to limit her interactions with other guys.
Another thing you can do when your girlfriend is too friendly to other guys is to ask her to limit her interactions with them.
She might conclude that you are jealous and insecure and that you don’t trust her.
But don’t let this shake you from doing what makes you feel safe and comfortable in that relationship.
Let her know why you would like her to limit her interactions with the guy friends.
If your girlfriend cares about you and wants the relationship to thrive she will do what you want.
Don’t ask her to cut them off simply because you don’t like it when she is so friendly to them.
This will be controlling her life, she won’t be happy about it at all.
You might end up ruining the relationship.
Just ask her to mind what she does around these guys and the time she spends hanging out with them.
5. Take action according to her response.
When you ask her to limit her engagement with these guys she will give you a response.
If nothing fishy is going on between her and these guys she won’t find a big deal to do what you want.
Since the relationship between the two of you means something to her, she will avoid anything that might stain it.
But if your girlfriend makes a big deal out of this after telling her about it, you will have no choice but to take action.
If she starts an argument and makes a big deal out of this since you told her you don’t like what she does, you will have no choice but to end things up with her.
This shows that she doesn’t consider how you feel.
If she is not ready to tweak a small thing just to keep the relationship going, this shows that you guys will always fight over petty issues.
Her ego is too big to admit that what she does is wrong.
She has the right to ask you to adjust something if she is not happy, the same goes to you.
When you are in a relationship, you have to be accountable for each other no matter what happens.
Your partner’s discomfort should be yours too.
Lastly…
When your girlfriend is too friendly with other guys you shouldn’t break up with her immediately unless you try to reason with her but she makes a big deal out of it.
If you aren’t comfortable that she is too close to other guys, let her know about it.
Be honest with her about what she does and how you feel about it.
If your girlfriend cares about you she will be ready to adjust things just to make you happy.
After all, when you are in a relationship each other’s happiness is what should always be on scale.
If at any point you are not happy with what your partner does, you have to confront her.
This is how relationships work.
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