Ali You have always been calling her but she never makes an effort to do the same.
When you stop calling her that’s when the communication between the two of you just flops.
It’s very frustrating sometimes when you are trying everything you can to keep the communication going but she keeps sinking it.
In this article, I will share some of the reasons why she never calls you but you always do.
This may give you a better understanding of what is going on between the two of you and how she feels about you.
What does it mean if she doesn’t call me?
When a girl doesn’t call you but you always do it means she is not interested in you at all — if a girl is into you she will always make an effort to maintain communication with you no matter what she goes through.
It doesn’t matter if she is busy with classes or a job that keeps her committed to a loop.
During her free time, she will make sure she talks to you first before she does anything else.
When a girl wants you that will be super clear to you — you won’t spend hours trying to figure out what she feels about you.
If you keep calling her every day but she never does, this shows that your relationship with her is only working because of the effort you put in.
She doesn’t care if you end up feeling overwhelmed by doing what you do to keep the communication going.
If you decide to stop calling her that will be the last time you will talk to her.
Let me share explained details about why she never calls you but you always call her.
This is why she never calls you;
1. She is not into you.
As I said earlier, if a girl doesn’t make an effort to keep the communication line active between the two of you — she is not into you at all.
She doesn’t see a reason to call you because you are not on her radar.
You are just someone she knows, a guy who keeps blowing up her phone with calls and messages and that’s all you are to her.
If she was interested in you she would have been initiating calls.
Don’t console yourself that she still doesn’t know you better which is why she doesn’t call.
The truth is that the moment you meet up with a girl, introduce yourself, and hang out with her — she already knows if you are the guy she will keep in touch with or not.
If you were the guy she wanted to be in touch with she would have been initiating calls.
The sad thing is that you are not someone she is interested in and that is why she doesn’t bother calling you.
You are interested in her but she doesn’t feel the same way about you.
For a woman, when she is into you she might not say a word, the way she will handle herself before you, the things she will do for you and how she will handle you will give you a clear sign that she is into you.
If you have been talking with her for a while and are up to date still searching for signs if she feels anything for you or not, she is not into you.
2. She wants you to chase her.
You have been calling her as long as you can remember since you started talking to her but she never does, why do you think that is the case?
You have been showering her with attention just to keep her close to you.
Everything you have been doing is just to show her that you care about her more than she knows.
You call her to check up on her, cheer her up every day through the lows she goes through, keep her busy when she is bored, and show her that she means a lot to you.
She likes everything you are doing and that is why she never gave you a reason to stop calling.
The surprising thing is that she always answers your calls, talks nicely to you, and even makes you feel that she is also concerned about you.
This makes you feel that she is on the same page as you — that you guys feel the same for each other and that is why she always picks up your calls.
What you don’t know is that she just wants you to keep calling her because she enjoys it when you give her attention and chase her.
It keeps her occupied and entertained when she doesn’t have anyone else to talk to.
She is nice to you when you call her because she wants you to keep doing it.
Deep down she knows that if she stops picking up your calls you will assume that she is not into you and you will stop chasing her.
The effort you are putting in right now to ensure you stay in touch with each other will stop.
She doesn’t want that to stop. Have you asked yourself why she never calls you?
You are the chaser — she enjoys it so much when you keep tailing her even when she doesn’t care about you.
If she calls you it will give you the impression that you have her attention, she also starts to like you and this may make you stop putting the effort you put into pursuing her.
You will stop chasing her, she doesn’t want you to stop because she enjoys all the attention you give her during this process.
3. She is not ready to put in any effort.
She never calls you because she is not ready to put in any effort to keep the communication going with you.
It doesn’t matter whether she is just a friend, your girlfriend, or a woman you are pursuing — she is not ready to commit to what you are building with her.
For a relationship to be built, people from both sides have to be willing to put in the effort to nurture it.
You always call her because you are determined to make the relationship between the two of you move somewhere.
The foundation of the relationship is what you can all think about and that is why you have been always picking up your phone and dialing her number.
You do all that without even feeling it’s a chore and a burden to you because you are ready to see the relationship work.
She doesn’t call you because she is not ready to commit to you and it’s unclear what she feels about what you are building.
If she wanted to turn the relationship into something else, make it stronger, and keep you close — she would have made an effort to call you once in a while if not frequently.
But the fact that she never calls but you always do shows that she doesn’t have the intention of making things work between the two of you.
She is just not ready to commit to the relationship you are trying to build with her and that is why she never puts any effort to be in touch with you.
4. She is interested in someone else.
She doesn’t call you but you always make an effort to reach out to her, doesn’t this tell you something is wrong?
The thing is that she always answers your calls it doesn’t matter the time it is.
She is always with her phone and it’s not that she is super busy to the extent that she can’t call you.
If she was busy with important things that are going on in her life currently, she wouldn’t have been picking up your calls.
She would have made it clear to you that she has something bigger going on in her life right now and that is why she is out of touch with you.
But since she picks up your calls and she is super active online, only say one thing about her — if she never calls you, she calls someone else.
You are interested in her but she is more into someone else.
If a girl doesn’t spend time with you, doesn’t give you her attention, she is never available for you — she does all those things to someone else.
You are just not the right guy she wants to keep close and that is why this is happening.
She has someone else in mind and that is why it has never crossed her mind that she should also be calling you since you have been doing it for a while.
5. She doesn’t want to talk to you.
If you always call her and she picks up your calls it doesn’t necessarily mean she wants to talk to you.
She never calls you because she just doesn’t want to talk to you about anything.
You initiate calls because you want to talk to her, pull her close, and make her see that you care about her but she doesn’t want that.
She never calls you because she doesn’t want to talk to you.
It can be that she just doesn’t want you to know the truth because she thinks it may hurt your feelings.
She sees all the effort you put in just to be in touch with her, she knows that you are so deep into her — she doesn’t want to hurt your feelings by telling you that she doesn’t want to talk to you.
What she is hoping is that you will eventually get exhausted calling her and you will stop.
6. She thinks you are desperate.
She never calls you but you always do — this gave her the impression that you are super desperate and obsessed with her.
You have been calling her often and blowing up her phone with a bunch of texts that she can’t even read.
This makes her feel that you are so much into her that you can’t help yourself to focus on something else other than her.
You are giving her the impression that you are desperate and obsessed with her.
The only thing you can think of is her and that is why you have been busy calling her every time.
You thought that calling her every time would make her conclude that you are into her and you care so much about her.
But it did the opposite — it turned her off because it was too much for her to handle.
She doesn’t want to tell you because she doesn’t want to hurt your feelings.
When a girl thinks that you are desperate for her she will lower your standards towards her.
She will never take you seriously at all and she would rather call a guy who ignores her and challenges her and not you.
You are too easy for her and too much to handle — she doesn’t want that kind of a man at all.
She never calls you because she knows you will always do it. After all, you can’t help yourselves when it comes to her.
Lastly…
Should I call her if she doesn’t call me?
You should not call her if she doesn’t call you at all. You should only put an effort where your energy is reciprocated. If she doesn’t call you it clearly shows that she doesn’t feel the same way about you.
If you have been calling her daily but she never does, she is not interested in you.
When a woman wants to be with you she will do everything she can to show you that you mean so much to her.
She will make an effort to stay in touch with you no matter how busy she is.
Don’t make excuses for her that she is busy and that is why she never calls.
If she is too busy, why does she pick up your calls immediately when you call her?
The point is that you are not the guy she wants to be in touch with and if she never calls you, she is calling someone else.
She never calls but always answers because she wants you to keep giving her attention and she doesn’t want to hurt your feelings by ignoring you.
The effort you put in to stay in touch with her makes her feel special and wanted, this is the feeling everyone is chasing.
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