She Never Calls I Always Call Her: Here’s Why

A man calling his girlfriend

Are you in a situation whereby you are always the one calling her but she doesn’t make an effort to call you? There are a lot of things you can learn from this situation.

 

There are reasons why she never calls you, you know some of them but you just don’t want to admit it.

 

You know that she doesn’t feel the same you feel about her but you keep holding onto her.

 

Thinking that if you keep initiating conversations with her, spend your time talking to her, and show her that you care she will eventually change her mind about you.

 

Let me spill the truth for you to know where this thing is going between the two of you.

 

It doesn’t matter whether she is your girlfriend or someone you are pursuing.

 

When you know she never makes the effort to call you, that is when you will understand what games she is playing and how she feels about you.

 

Why she never calls but you always call her;

1. She doesn’t want to commit to you.

A man calling his girlfriend

 

Let me make the first thing clear to you about why she doesn’t want to call you but you always make the effort to do it.

 

She doesn’t want to commit, she is not ready and things between the two of you aren’t going to be the way you hope.

 

If you expressed your feelings to her and made her realize that you want something more from her and she acted like you were on the same page, she did it to cut the story short.

 

The truth is that she doesn’t want to commit to you and that is why she doesn’t put any effort into keeping the relationship going.

 

If she was ready to give the relationship everything and sacrifice the things she cares about to keep it growing, you would have seen how committed she would have been.

 

Let me tell you something about women. It’s easier to notice when they are into you.

 

You don’t have to spend months reading the signs for you to know how they feel about you.

 

When a girl is ready to be with you she will do anything for you. She will do thousands of tiny things to show you that you mean the world to her.

 

You won’t have to be worried about when she will come over. She will always be there when you need her, she will wake you up with a morning call and text you like you are about to leave the next day.

 

So, if she told you that she wants to be with you or showed you signs that she is interested in you, that may be true but she is not ready for something serious with you.

 

If she wanted to commit to a relationship with you she would have made the effort to call you and wouldn’t have been the one always on the speed dial.

 

For a woman, she doesn’t have to tell you that she doesn’t want to commit to you.

 

You will see that through her actions and I believe you are seeing them now.

 

2. You are forcing yourself on her.

She never calls but you always call her because she is not on your radar.

 

You are forcing yourself on her but she is not even thinking about you.

 

The truth is that she is minding her business. She is busy with the people she adores.

 

You are not someone she wants to talk to, share her moments with, and open up about how her life is.

 

The truth is that you may be so much into her, you need her and that is why you are always reaching out to her.

 

You call her every day to show her good gesture that you care about her.

 

She doesn’t want to tell you the truth but she doesn’t feel the same way you do.

 

Maybe she told you that she doesn’t think the two of you would work out but you ignored that part.

 

You put your hopes high thinking that she will eventually change her mind like other girls do.

 

Deep down you know that she isn’t even aware that you exist. It’s the moment you call her when she realizes there is someone like you.

 

She is like, “You know I have been so busy dealing with my life, focusing on myself, and working out on other issues.”

 

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The truth is that she is not busy or focusing on her life. The only thing she does is have fun with her friends and spend time with the guy she adores.

 

Since you are too busy pushing to make her realize you can be more, she doesn’t see things that way.

 

She doesn’t call you to give you a message. You don’t listen to her silent message. She is not in love with you, she doesn’t want anything to do with you, what you do is force issues.

 

You are forcing yourself on her thinking she will eventually open up and give you what you want.

 

3. The relationship is one-sided.

If you are in a relationship with her then know that it’s one-sided.

 

She doesn’t want to put the effort into the relationship, you are the only one doing the heavy part.

 

When a relationship is one-sided you will know about it easily because you will be the only one initiating everything.

 

You always call her but she never does, you probably make date arrangements every single weekend and you ask her to come over but she never comes up with anything.

 

The relationship is alive because you are the one putting it in place. If you stop calling there is communication between the two of you.

 

The relationship depends on you to keep going. If you stop doing the things you do, it will feel like the two of you are not in a relationship.

 

You are still together because not that she wants to but it’s since you want her.

 

The moment you realize you are doing everything you can to keep a relationship going, it’s one-sided.

 

If you stop calling her, that will be the end of your relationship.

 

When a relationship is one-sided you will realize it because you will feel its entire weight on your shoulders.

 

The relationship will no longer be fun to you. It will be a burden.

 

You are doing too much to the extent that it feels like a job for you and not something fun anymore.

 

When we look at it, you are always the one calling, texting, and asking her out on dates.

 

She never does anything to give you a gesture that she cares about you and wants the relationship to keep growing.

 

All she does is respond to the things you ask of her but she doesn’t make an effort to make up anything for the sake of the relationship and you.

 

She knows that you will eventually get tired of doing what you do and you will let it sink.

 

4. She wants you to chase her.

She enjoys it when you always call her. It makes her feel special, wanted, and loved.

 

This is the kind of woman who wants you to keep chasing her even after admitting to being in your life.

 

This is the same reason why you always call her but she doesn’t attempt to.

 

She knows that if she doesn’t reach out to you, this will always force you to be in touch with her.

 

Since she wants you to chase her, she doesn’t call you.

 

She likes it when you give her your attention without even seeking it.

 

You are the kind of a man she needs in her life — to manipulate you and not keep you.

 

Women love attention. You may be thinking that maybe you are irritating her with your frequent calls, she enjoys it.

 

It completes her ego and makes her feel like a valuable woman.

 

Have you asked yourself why she always responds to your calls whenever you reach out?

 

She picks up your calls because she wants you to keep calling her.

 

You always call her because the last conversation you had with her was amazing.

 

She is a sweet girl, she seems kind to you, and she says things to turn you on and keep your hopes up about what can happen between the two of you.

 

What you don’t know is that she does all these things to pull you closer to her to keep you chasing her.

 

She knows that if she does anything to discourage you, the frequent calls you make to her will stop.

 

That’s not something she is willing to let happen. And that is why she always picks up when you call her but she never calls you.

 

If you are pursuing her, just know that she is stringing you along, it’s not that she is interested in you.

 

The only thing she enjoys from you is the attention. She is being nice to you to keep you chasing her; that’s why you always call her but she never does.

 

5. If she doesn’t call you, she calls someone else.

Girls can be complicated sometimes when they don’t aren’t on your radar.

 

When a girl is in love with you she will be a fool for you. Anything that you will do for her will seem magical.

 

You always call her and she always picks up.

 

If she doesn’t pick up maybe you will assume she is rarely closer to her phone. Maybe she is too busy dealing with other issues in her life.

 

The fact that she always picks up your calls shows that she is always around and actively using her phone.

 

If she doesn’t call you there is someone else she calls. There’s an important guy that she is always calling but not you.

 

Her attention was grabbed by someone else. You are just someone who is on her radar, but hers is pointed to someone else.

 

It’s simple for a girl, if she doesn’t hang out with you, she is hanging out with someone else.

 

If she doesn’t come over to your place, she goes to another man’s house.

 

That’s how simple things are between the two of you.

 

So, if she never calls you, it’s true to say that she has someone else in mind.

 

She likes someone else and it’s not you. If you were the guy she had in her mind she would have been calling you every single day.

 

No day would go by without her reaching out to you even if she doesn’t have anything important to talk about with you.

 

She is busy calling another guy that’s why she never calls you but you always reach out to her.

 

Do you think she feels the same way you feel about her? If she says so, you are just someone she is using for the moment.

 

She will eventually stop picking up your calls when that incredible dude locks her up in his life.

 

Now she has the chance to pick up and that is why she does it. It won’t be the same for a few weeks or months to come.

 

You are not someone she wants to stick with. She is into someone else.

 

6. You don’t give her a reason to call you.

You always call her but she doesn’t because you have never given her a reason to.

 

This may be happening because of you. You are not doing anything extraordinary to give her a reason to call.

 

You may claim that you make an effort to make her realize she means something more.

 

All you do is call her in the morning, afternoon and evening but there is nothing important you are doing.

 

The things you talk about with her don’t stick in her head. She doesn’t even think about you at all.

 

The conversations you have with her when you call are empty and dry. They don’t turn her on or excite her.

 

When you hang up the phone, nothing is left in her head to think about you.

 

She doesn’t even have the slightest memory of your conversations even though you call her six times a day.

 

You are asking yourself why she never calls you, this is the answer; you don’t give her a reason to call you.

 

If you make her happy, turn her on, and make her emotional via the phone she would have been calling you.

 

She would have been thinking about you every single day and not a day will go by without reaching out to you.

 

If your conversations with her always make her look forward to your next call, the moment you stop calling her, she will reach out to you because she will be curious to know what you have in place for her.

 

If you are wondering why she never calls you, this is something worth checking on.

 

7. She just doesn’t feel like talking to you.

Another simple reason why she never calls you but you always do it is because she doesn’t feel like talking to you.

 

If a girl doesn’t want to talk to you she will never initiate conversations.

 

You will call and text her but she will never make an effort to reach out to you when you don’t.

 

It’s that simple with a woman. If she doesn’t feel like talking to you that will be noticeable from the communication patterns.

 

She will hardly make an effort to initiate the conversation with you.

 

You will also notice that from time to time she ignores you even when you try to show her that she means more to you.

 

If a girl doesn’t feel like talking to you no matter how hard you keep the communication going, she will never lift a finger to dial up your number.

 

She may be bored, exhausted, losing interest or you don’t talk about anything that excites her when you call her.

 

If she is struggling to keep the conversation going with you, she is not excited to talk to you and nothing about what you talk about captures her attention, she will never call you.

 

Lastly…

If you always calling her but she never makes an effort to reach out to you, just know that she is not interested in you.

 

She hasn’t told you that she doesn’t want anything to do with you because she enjoys your attention.

 

It makes her feel special and wanted. This is why she always picks up your calls but she never makes an effort to call you.

 

If you have noticed that you are the only one maintaining the communication, you should know that she is not on your radar.

 

She is either using you for attention, she wants you to chase her, or she is into someone else.

 

You are the guy that keeps her entertained.

 

If you have been calling her but the conversations aren’t captivating, she doesn’t have a reason to reach out to you.

 

Anyway, if you want to work this out, find out what she truly feels about you and that will give you an idea of how to work things out with her.

 

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