When A Guy Wants To Spend Time With You Alone: It Means?

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If a guy wants to spend time with you alone the first thing you should know is that he wants to express his feelings for you.

 

Anyway, there is more to what it means. In this article, I will share what you need to know about why he wants to hang out with you alone.

 

When a guy wants to spend time with you alone it means he wants to have the opportunity to express what he feels for you, to make a romantic move on you, or just have you only paying attention to him.

 

If a guy wants to have the chance to show you what you mean to him, the first thing he will do is find a means to be around you.

 

He will want to spend more time with you, he will invite you to his house, and he will always take you to private places (e.g. hotels and Airbnb.)

 

Read also; What Does It Mean When A Guy Invites You To His House?

 

If a guy wants to spend time with you alone away from other people and your friends, he has an agenda in mind.

 

Let me explain deeply for you to understand why he prefers to hang out with you alone.

 

This is why he wants to hang out with you alone;

1. He wants to make a romantic move on you.

A man and a woman hanging out at the edge of the hill

 

When a guy wants to hang out with you alone this is the first thing you should know; he wants to make a romantic move.

 

It can be that he wants to touch you, kiss you, express what he feels for you, or do anything that will give you a gesture that he considers you more than just a friend.

 

Most guys find it harder to express their feelings to a woman when other people are around.

 

When a guy is expressing his feelings to a girl, he is making himself vulnerable.

 

He doesn’t know if you are going to respond positively or push him away.

 

No guy wants to be seen as weak. That is why most of them don’t have the courage to express their feelings when a girl is around other people.

 

If a guy wants to spend time with you alone just know that he is searching for a way to express his feelings for you.

 

Don’t be surprised when he starts touching you romantically when it’s just the two of you.

 

He knows that when it’s only you with him it will be easier for him to show what he feels for you.

 

If he is just a friend, and suddenly he wants to hang out with you alone, just know that he wants to share something he doesn’t want other people to hear.

 

What he wants to say or do with you is only meant for you to hear and see and not anyone else.

 

In most cases, when a man wants to spend time with you alone it’s a sign that he is interested in you.

 

The part of him wanting to spend time with you alone is just to show you that what is going on should only be between the two of you.

 

2. He wants you to pay attention to him.

He may have realized that when you are with your friends you don’t give him the attention he wants.

 

You don’t listen to what he says because you are always distracted by them.

 

He knows that if it’s only the two of you nothing will stand between what he wants to share with you.

 

It can be that he just wants you to listen to him, hear what he has to say without other people coming in between the two of you.

 

Maybe you have those kinds of friends who fix themselves in the middle of the conversation he is having with you and this annoys him.

 

You forget about what he was talking about and start paying attention to your friends instead of him.

 

He wants to spend time with you alone to be able to have your full attention.

 

If you are only with him you will have no choice but to listen to him, pay attention to him, and give him the response he desires.

 

3. He enjoys your company when it’s the two of you.

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When it reaches a point where a guy wants to spend time with you alone, it’s a sign that he enjoys your company.

 

Your relationship with him is incredible (be it platonic or romantic). You make him happy whenever you are around.

 

You are the kind of person who listens to him attentively and makes him smile and laugh even when he is in a bad mood.

 

The two of you just fit and connect in a way he doesn’t feel with anyone else.

 

This is brought about by how you treat each other. You get along well with him and that is why he always enjoys your company when it’s just the two of you alone.

 

When a guy enjoys your company he will always want to have you around.

 

He will make up excuses just to meet you up and talk for hours even when there is nothing important to discuss.

 

4. He gains the confidence to say and do anything when you are alone.

Some guys find it hard to talk about sensitive matters when other people are listening to them.

 

He wants to spend time with you alone because that is when he gets the chance to open up to you and talk about anything he feels like.

 

It can be that your friends make it harder for him to open up.

 

Or he may be a shy guy and that is why it’s harder for him to talk or do anything when your friends are around.

 

But if it’s just the two of you alone, he gains the courage to talk and do anything.

 

You can’t blame him for that, it’s who he is. I bet he hates it when your friends are always with you because they make things harder for him.

 

5. The vibe is amazing when it’s just you and him.

A woman and a man chilling by the beach

He wants to spend time with you alone because the vibe is usually super amazing when it’s just you and him.

 

You reveal who you are when it’s the two of you, you are yourself and that is what he likes.

 

But when your friends are around you put on another skin that isn’t attractive. You push him away because of your friends.

 

You can’t open up to him, you feel restricted and this hides the best of you.

 

When it’s just you and him, you let everything loose, you show him what he wants to see and this is what makes the vibe so cool.

 

Also, it’s easier for him to be himself when it’s just the two of you.

 

You can make silly jokes, pat each other on the back, and laugh without feeling awkward.

 

It’s easier for you to connect when there is no one else around but just the two of you.

 

When a guy finds out that his time with you is spent better without your friends around, he will always ask you to meet him alone.

 

He will ask you to ditch your friends just to spend your time with him alone.

 

6. He knows it’s easier for you to open up to him.

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If he wants to get to know you better and he thinks that if your friends are around it is harder to open up, he will want you to hang out with him alone.

 

Read also; When A Guy Wants To Get To Know You Better: It Means?

 

He realized that it’s always easier for you to talk about things that are deep when it’s the two of you.

 

You find it easier to tell him about your past and everything about how your life is progressing when it’s just the two of you.

 

He wants you to keep opening up to him so that he gets to know you and connect with you.

 

You are comfortable to talk about things when you are alone and that is why he wants things to be that way.

 

When a guy wants to know you better he will always put you in a position that will make it easier for you to open up to him.

 

To make it easier for you to open up about your life to him he will always want to spend time with you alone.

 

Lastly…

When a guy wants to spend time alone with you the first thing you should know is that he is interested in you.

 

He wants to express his feelings to you and that is why he wants you alone.

 

Don’t be surprised when he starts touching you, initiating a kiss, and saying how bad he wants you to be in his life.

 

If you are just getting to know each other, he wants to hang out with you alone because it’s the only way he will get you to be comfortable around him enough to open up to him.

 

Anyway, when a guy wants to spend time with you away from your friends, should you do it?

 

If you are interested in him, you are curious to see what he has in place for you and you trust him not to do anything to harm you, do it.

 

But if you aren’t interested in him and you know that he wants something more from you that you can’t offer, don’t hang out with him alone.

 

Just come up with an excuse, or tell him the truth that you don’t want anything more from him.

 

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