When A Guy Wants To Get To Know You Better: It Means?

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You have met this guy and he says that he wants to get to know you better. You have so many questions because you don’t know his angle.

 

He wants to get to know you better since he sees something worth knowing from you.

 

You should know that he likes what he sees, you have a vibe that he can’t resist and the part of him saying that he wants to get to know you is just a way to get closer to you.

 

In this article, I will dive deep into what it means when a guy says he wants to get to know you better and why he suggests something like that.

 

What does it mean when a guy wants to get to know you better?

When a guy wants to get to know you better it means he likes the first impression you have given him, he is intrigued by you and he is just curious to find more gems about you.

 

He has seen your vibe and you are just someone he wants to be around and that is why he wants to dig deeper.

 

It can be that he just had a short conversation with you and found out that you are the kind of person he would spend his time with.

 

Since he likes how you guys connect, he feels compelled to find out more about you.

 

Anyway, there are always reasons why a guy would want to get to know you better. It’s time you know his intentions.

 

When a man wants to approach a woman, everything he does is usually intentional.

 

The words he says and the things he does will always be to lure you into his life.

 

Why he wants to get to know you better;

1. He wants to get to know the kind of person you are.

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When a guy wants to know you better this is what you should know; he is just curious to find out the kind of a girl you are.

 

The moment you started interacting he realize there is more that you don’t reveal.

 

It’s like he is suggesting that you are a mystery that he would like to solve.

 

It can be that what you do and say around him doesn’t reveal everything about you.

 

He is just intrigued by how you handle yourself and that is why he wants to find out more about you.

 

He may have different motives as to why he wants to get to know you better or it’s just that he is the kind of a guy who wants to understand every girl he comes across.

 

You have grabbed his attention, he wants to understand how you did that.

 

On the other hand, it can be that the way you handle yourself is unique. He has never seen another girl do the things you do.

 

There is something about you that he doesn’t understand as to why you are doing the things you do.

 

He is trying to find out what pushes you to be the kind of person you are.

 

You are a mystery that he wants to solve. But this is not the only reason why he wants to get to know you better.

 

2. He wants to see if you align with what he wants.

The truth is that he wants to create a connection with you. It can be that he is either thinking of befriending you or dating you.

 

But he doesn’t know if you have the qualities he is seeking for.

 

It can be that he is searching for a woman with certain qualities that align with what he wants.

 

You may be smart and beautiful, but that is just the surface. He wants to dig deeper and see if you can be the kind of person he wants to hang out with.

 

He is not sure if you would fit into his criteria or not and that is what he wants to find out.

 

Finding out what he wants to know will take time and that is why he is telling you early in advance for you to open up to him whenever he wants you to.

 

3. He is expecting something more from you.

The truth is that he looked at you and found you to be super attractive.

 

He is interested in you but he thinks it will be crazy if he starts telling you that he wants you to be his girlfriend since you don’t know each other that well.

 

You are the kind of woman he would like to have in his life and that is why he suggested that he would like to know you more.

 

What holds him back is that you don’t know much about him. He thinks that if he starts making his moves you won’t respond positively.

 

The part of him saying that he wants to get to know you better is one way of him getting to slowly show you the kind of a guy he is.

 

There is an end game here, right now he says he wants to find out the kind of a person you are but in the end, he will ask you to be his girlfriend.

 

As long as it may take, he will eventually tell you what he truly wants from you.

 

He may be trying to get closer to you using the friendship angle but deep down he is working for something more than that.

 

Don’t be surprised when he says that he would like you to be more than a friend.

 

Read also; The Meaning Of “We Are More Than Friends”

 

When a guy is not interested in you, he won’t care about knowing you.

 

Why would he want to know what you like to do during weekends if he doesn’t want to be close to you?

 

The only thing he will do is just ignore you and distance himself away from you.

 

4. He wants to get closer to you.

Men have different tactics to get closer to women they like. This may be his method of getting closer to you.

 

He knows that you aren’t connected since you have met recently.

 

You don’t know much about him neither does he. He knows it will be hard to get you to be closer and be comfortable sharing anything about your life with him.

 

So, he is slowly working on connecting you to him by keeping the conversation going.

 

If he says he wants to get to know you more, he will ask to be in touch with you — he will want your number, and he will call and text you frequently.

 

At first, he will start sharing with you more about himself and talk about his life to get you to do the same too.

 

He knows that talking to you frequently about deeper things about his life will get the two of you to connect and be closer to each other.

 

You will start getting comfortable sharing anything about your life with him since he is vulnerable to you.

 

Also, as you get to know more about each other, it will become easier for you to open up to him, and show him the other side of your life and this will get you super close to each other.

 

It won’t be long, he will ask to hang out with you, invite you to his place, and ask to come over to your place.

 

Read also; What Does It Mean When A Guy Invites You To His House?

 

All these things are just meant to get you closer to him to create a relationship with you.

 

It can either be a platonic or romantic one — depending on how he feels about you.

Lastly…

When a guy wants to get to know you the first thing you should know is that he likes what he sees.

 

You are attractive to him and he wants to get closer to you. It can be that he wants you to be his friend or girlfriend.

 

He wants to know if you have the qualities that he wants so that he gets to express what he feels for you.

 

As time goes by he will know if you align with what he wants or if you are just not the kind of person he expected you to be.

 

The part of him wanting to know you is just to get you to open up to him and show him who you are.

 

He is also stalling to see how the vibe between the two of you will keep progressing.

 

The truth is that if he didn’t find you attractive, he wouldn’t have wanted to know anything about you.

 

Just know that he is interested in you and he is just buying some time before he reveals his intentions to you.

 

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