When A Guy Wants To Take You To A Hotel: It Means?

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When a guy wants to take you to a hotel he just wants to have a good time with you, treat you, and eventually make a move on you.

 

If he is someone who has been showing you that he is interested in you romantically, he is likely going to make a move on you.

 

He will initiate a romantic move — touch you, kiss you, romance you and when things between the two of you intensify, he will get you in bed.

 

Anyway, you don’t know for sure what his intentions are when he wants to take you to a hotel unless he makes it clear.

 

For now, you may be making an assumption, in this article, I will share what it means and why he wants to make such a move.

 

What does it mean when a guy wants to take you to a hotel?

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When a guy wants to take you to a hotel it means he wants privacy with you so that he can make a move on you — have sex with you, he may want to express what he feels for you or he just wants to hang out with you alone.

 

If he is someone who has given you signs that he wants more from you, expect that he will make his move on you.

 

He wants to go with you to a hotel because he is planning to have sex with you.

 

There is no way he will hold himself up when it comes to what he wants from you.

 

If you have recently realized that the tension between the two of you is intense, just know that he wants to have sex with you.

 

He wants to pin you down, but he just doesn’t want to tell you directly thinking that it may make you feel scared or give you cold feet.

 

Sometimes when a guy thinks that saying something directly will make you uncomfortable and unwilling to go through with it, he will try to sugarcoat it.

 

He knows that when he says he wants to f*ck with you it will make you uncomfortable, instead, he says he wants to take you to a hotel.

 

You won’t overthink so much about it when it’s just a plain statement.

 

This will make you comfortable and willing to go through with what he wants.

 

It’s like he is hiding his true intentions from you. He doesn’t want you to know what he has in store for you.

 

This is the same thing when a guy invites you over to his house.

 

He may ask you to go over to his house, but he won’t tell you exactly why he wants you to do that.

 

Read also; When A Guy Invites You To His House: It Means?

 

If he is not going to make a move on you, he is likely going to express what he feels for you if he hasn’t made things clear.

 

Why he wants to take you to a hotel;

1. He wants to have sex with you.

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If a guy wants to take you to a hotel and things between the two of you are sexually tense, just know that he wants to have sex with you.

 

He has feelings for you and he wants to act on them — to do that he needs time and privacy with you.

 

It doesn’t matter how long you are going to be with him at the hotel he wants to take you, he will make his move on you.

 

In most cases, guys know that when they take a girl to a hotel, she won’t have an option but just to go through with what they want.

 

He said he wants to take you to a hotel, but the truth is that he wants to have sex with you.

 

If he is someone who is pursuing you and he has noticed that you feel the same way about him and you are comfortable around him, he wants to take advantage of this situation.

 

He didn’t directly tell you that he wants to have sex with you because he knows as long as it’s the two of you things will slowly unfold.

 

If you are interested in him and it’s just the two of you in a hotel room, you will be tempted to go along with what he wants.

 

He says he wants to take you to a hotel just to prevent you from overthinking so much about what might happen.

 

When you overthink about it this may make you change your mind or you may ask him to change the location of your date out.

 

The moment a guy wants more privacy with you — this is a sign that he wants to get into your pants.

 

He may give you thousands of excuses but that is always the reality.

 

A guy who doesn’t want to have sex with you will never insist on putting you in private situations.

 

He will be open to meet up with you anywhere you want, he won’t even talk about wanting to have privacy with you.

 

It won’t cross his mind because that is not what he truly wants from you.

 

You will just hang out at the beach, take you around the malls, enjoy your day at the park, and just play games with you and that will be all.

 

But if a guy wants to take you to a hotel, invite you over to his house, and ask you out for dinner — this is a sign he wants to turn things around.

2. He wants to treat you.

When a guy wants to take you to a hotel it doesn’t necessarily mean he wants to have sex with you.

 

Sometimes it’s all about treating you and showing you how much he cares about you.

 

To guys it’s always simple, they show their love by giving materialistic things to the women they are interested in.

 

When a guy is into you he won’t find it a big deal to spend money on you at all.

 

He will do that because you mean so much to him than the money.

 

You are a precious gem to him and that is why he wants to spend it all on you, make you happy, and give you a reason to stick with him.

 

Guys have different ways of showing their love to women they care about.

 

So, when a guy wants to take you to a hotel, it’s a treat for you — he wants to make you happy and show you that he is willing to give you more than you ask.

 

He is showing you that he is ready to take care of you and do things to make you happy, hoping that this will make you open yourself to him.

 

You will conclude that he loves you and that is why he is willing to spend almost $500 just in a hotel with you to make you happy.

 

He wants to show you that he can do anything for you as long as you stick with him through his lows and highs.

 

You may be surprised — he may take you to a hotel and just give you space to enjoy your time there.

 

He won’t bother coming over to your suite at all. But if you feel the same way about him, you will find yourself needing him around.

 

You will conclude that he cares so much about you and you will want to make him happy.

 

So, when a guy wants to take you to a hotel, he may want to do it just to treat you, to show you how much he cares about you but at the same time, it’s a way of preparing you for what is coming.

 

The way a guy treats you will eventually make you open to him and be ready to give him what he wants.

 

Guys give materialistic things to get love, and women on the other hand offer their bodies and attention to show their appreciation.

 

3. He just wants to hang out with you alone.

A man holding a woman in a swimming pool

He wants to take you to a hotel because he knows it will be just the two of you and he will have time with you alone.

 

Let me say, he wants to have time with you alone.

 

There are so many reasons why a guy may want to hang out with you alone — the main one usually has something to do with how he feels about you.

 

Read also; When A Guy Wants To Hang Out Alone With You: It Means?

 

If he wants to spend time with you alone at the hotel, it can be that he wants to express what he feels for you, make a move on you, or just enjoy having you around.

 

So, take a moment and think about how he has been handling himself around you.

 

Has he shown you that he wants something more from you?

Does he initiate romantic moves when he is around you?

Does he tell you how he feels about you or how he perceives you?

 

If he has been open to you about how he feels about you, just know that he wants to chill with you alone to handle you romantically.

 

It’s going to be a romantic moment between the two of you.

 

He wants to take you to a hotel since he considers it as a special date between the two of you.

 

The date will give him the chance to be around you, focus on you, and create a romantic connection between the two of you.

 

It’s also one way of making you comfortable around him so that next time when he takes you somewhere else, it won’t feel too tense and weird for you.

 

He may take you to the hotel but he won’t even make a move on you other than just having a great time with you.

 

This is all just to make you feel safe and at ease around him — preparing you for what is coming.

 

When you are finally comfortable with him, you won’t hesitate to go over to his house when he invites you for dinner.

 

Read also; When A Guy Invites You Over For Dinner: It Means?

 

Once you are used to hanging out with him, you will feel at ease around him and things won’t feel weird when it’s just the two of you, that is when he will make his move on you.

 

For now, he wants to hang out with you alone to make you comfortable around him and enjoy his time with you.

 

But if he is just a friend and he has never shown you that he is interested in a romantic relationship with you — he wants to take you to a hotel just to have fun with you.

 

There is nothing more he wants from you other than just a great time with you.

 

He enjoys your company, that is why he is suggesting to take you to a hotel.

 

4. Maybe he doesn’t want you to know where he stays.

Sometimes when a guy wants to take you to a hotel instead of his place it’s because he is hiding something from you.

 

It can be that he is in a relationship and everyone around his neighborhood knows that.

 

He usually spends lots of time with his girlfriend at his place, taking you there will make his girlfriend know that he is cheating on her.

 

So, he wants to take you to a hotel so that he keeps hiding his little secret.

 

No one will know that he has been seeing another woman thus keeping his relationship with his girlfriend intact.

 

He knows that when you know where he stays, you might end up coming over when his girlfriend is around and that would ruin things for him.

 

So, if a guy always wants to take you to a hotel to spend time with you and not to his place, he is hiding something from you.

 

It’s not that he enjoys spending money on you or it’s about the treat.

 

He always wants to take you to a hotel because it’s the only way he will keep his relationship with you from ruining what he is building.

 

Sometimes it may be too hard for you to notice that a guy is on something because he may fool you.

 

He may act so sweet and caring just to make you feel cared for and loved but it’s all about him hiding something in plain sight.

 

If he has always wanted to take you to a hotel and not at his house — he is either in a relationship or he doesn’t want you to know where he stays.

 

Lastly…

When a guy wants to take you to a hotel just know that he wants to make his move on you.

 

If he is into you romantically, expect that he will make his move on you the moment you are with him at the hotel.

 

But if he hasn’t expressed what he feels for you and yet he has feelings for you, he may be doing this to get an opportunity to show you what you mean to him.

 

He may tell you what he feels for you when it’s just the two of you in that hotel.

 

But if he is just a friend who has never shown you that he wants something more from you other than friendship, he just wants to have a good time with you and nothing more.

 

When a guy wants to take you to a hotel and you know that deep down you aren’t on the same page, don’t bother accepting that invitation.

 

It will just make things between the two of you awkward. It’s best you just hang out at an open place like a coffee shop or a park.

 

But if you are into him and you are wondering what he also feels about you then go ahead and accept the invitation to the hotel.

 

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