What Does It Mean When A Guy Talks Sexually To You?

When a guy talks sexually to you it means that he wants to give you the impression that he is interested in you romantically — he wants to get all over you and have sex with you.

There are several things you can conclude when a guy talks sexually to you.

In this article, I will be sharing what it means when a guy talks sexually to you and some of the reasons why he does that.

When a guy talks sexually to you sometimes it’s not all about what he feels for you.

You may suggest that maybe he likes you, he wants something more from you, and that things between the two of you are exactly the way you want them to be.

A guy may talk sexually to you just for the sake of flirting with you and getting you in the mood for the moment.

You will know more about why a guy may start talking dirty either via texts, calls, or in person.

But before you do, let me share what it means when a guy talks sexually to you.

What does it mean when a guy talks sexually to you?

When a guy talks sexually to you it means he is flirting with you, he is expressing what he feels for you, he wants you next to him to be able to make his move on you in bed.

For you to know the position that he is in, you first have to observe the relationship between the two of you.

You can just conclude that he is super into you and wants a serious relationship with you simply because he talks sexually to you.

Your relationship with him is what will give you a clear idea about why he talks dirty to you.

If he is just a friend who has been showing romantic gestures to you for a while — he is expressing his feelings for you.

He wants you to know that he doesn’t only want to be friends with you but expects something more.

This guy is aware that when he starts talking dirty to you, it will give you the impression that he is past the friendship level with you.

It’s why he is trying to express his feelings for you.

When it reaches a point where a guy talks sexually to you it shows that he is way deep into what he thinks and feels about you.

But if he is your boyfriend, when he starts talking dirty to you it means that he misses you so much and he wants to have you in his bed.

The part of him talking sexually is just to ignite the mood so that you also get into his zone.

If a guy talks sexually to you does he like you?

In most cases, when a guy talks sexually to you it means he has feelings for you and he is expressing them directly to you for you to know what his intentions are and what he wants from you.

When he talks dirty it will give you an impression that he wants something more from you.

He is making his intentions clear for you to know where the two of you are heading.

When a guy has feelings for you it means he likes you and wants you to be more than just a friend to him.

So, the moment a guy talks dirty to you the first thing you should assume is that he wants to be with you romantically.

But you can’t know for sure if he wants a serious relationship with you or if he just wants you for sex.

Let me give you some situations that will make things easier for you to determine whether he likes you or if he is just teasing you.

If you have been friends for a while and he has tried to express what he feels for you using words and actions — when he talks sexually to you it means he likes you and he would like to move past the friendship barrier.

So, only conclude that he has feelings for you and wants something more if he is someone who has been pursuing you for a while.

But if he came out of nowhere and started talking sexually to you this doesn’t necessarily mean he likes you — he is flirting with you, he only wants you for sex, he is trying to read your reaction and he is bored and you are the only one who he can get hold of.

Some guys will start talking dirty to any woman they get hold of because they are bored to the core and want someone to help them push time.

Guys also use women for attention and pushing time.

A guy may text you dirty texts just to use you to jerk off. Not that he has any affection for you but since you are the woman who can entertain him, he puts you in his life.

When he is done with you, that’s when he will ignore and ghost you, he will only reach out to you when he wants to use you again.

You can’t just assume that a guy is into you when he talks sexually to you unless he does more than that — words aren’t meaningful nowadays, observe what he does for you and what he truly wants.

He may be talking sexually to you because his only aim is to get into your pants. Once he accomplishes that, you won’t hear from him again.

So, when a guy talks sexually to you and the only thing he suggests is taking you to the hotel or inviting you to his house — he only wants to f*ck with you and nothing else.

A guy who is truly interested in you will express his feelings for you, but he will never insist on one thing from you, he will want you to be everything to him.

He will ask you to commit to him and be there for him so that he gets everything he is yearning for from you.

But if he is talking dirty all the time and he doesn’t even mention the word relationship, it’s clear that he only wants you for sex.

On the other side of the coin, when a guy talks sexually to you, he cares about you, he tells you his clear intentions, he spends more time with you, and doesn’t seem to rush you into his bed — he has feelings for you and he genuinely likes you.

You always have to use your actions to determine if a guy is into you and not through what he says.

For you to conclude that a guy likes you when he talks sexually to you is by first observing your relationship with him.

If there is no connection between the two of you, you aren’t that close, you aren’t comfortable with each other and you don’t know each other better — when a guy talks sexually to you it’s purely disrespect.

There is nothing like expressing how he feels for you. A guy who respects you will never start talking dirty to you when he doesn’t know anything about you.

If you don’t know each other and he starts talking dirty to you — he doesn’t respect you and he got the impression that all you are in for is sex and nothing else.

What to do when a guy talks sexually to you

1. Stop him on the spot if you aren’t interested.

When a guy talks sexually to you the first thing you should do if you don’t like the topic is to ask him to change it.

Let him know that you don’t like the words he says to you since they make you uncomfortable.

If you can’t do that, you have to distance yourself from him, this will give him the impression that you don’t like what he says.

But if you can’t distance yourself from him, just ignore him. Put earphones in your ears and do what you want to and he will finally get tired and walk away or stop talking sexually to you.

If the guy is texting or calling you, you have to block him and get rid of his number or choose to ignore his texts.

You have to let him know that you are not happy with what he says. If he cares about you and respects you and isn’t only after you for sex, he will stop it when you give him the impression that you aren’t pleased with what he says.

2. Encourage him to keep going if you like it.

If he talks sexually to you and you enjoy it the best thing to do is encourage him to keep going.

Talking sexually sometimes is one way of you connecting especially when both of you are on the same page.

All you have to do is give him a positive response so that he continues to talk to you.

Let him know that you like what he says, express what you feel for him and always encourage him to keep it going.

Lastly…

If you don’t like it that a guy talks sexually to you the first thing you have to do is let him know that you aren’t pleased.

Don’t be silent if what he shares irritates you.

You choose what you want to hear and read from any guy who is in touch with you.

When a guy is interested in you romantically, he will start talking sexually to you to express what he yearns for from you.

If he has shown you any romantic gestures before, it means he wants more from you than friendship.

But if it’s a guy you aren’t close with, he hasn’t expressed what he feels for you and doesn’t know you well enough — when he talks sexually to you, he is just being disrespectful to you.

To him, you aren’t worth anything other than sex. That’s what he wants from you and that is why he didn’t even bother to get to know you before he started talking dirty to you.