When A Guy Invites You Over For Drinks: It Means?

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When a guy invites you over for drinks it means he wants to spend some time with you, talk to you, get to know you, and eventually make a move on you.

 

If a guy invites you over for drinks, just know that he considers that as a date.

 

Having drinks with you will allow him to spend some time with you long enough to say what he wants to.

 

So, when a guy asks you out for a cup of coffee just know it’s a date for sure.

 

Some guys are just afraid of saying openly to you that they want to go out on a date with you.

 

He thought that asking you out on a date directly might give you cold feet or make you conclude other things that he doesn’t want you to.

 

Anyway, there are several reasons why a guy may invite you over for drinks, but first, you have to know what it means.

 

What does it mean when a guy invites you over for drinks?

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When a guy invites you over for drinks it means he is asking you out on a date indirectly — he wants to spend time with you to get the chance to express what he feels for you or make a romantic move on you.

 

It’s not just about drinks with you, it’s all about him getting the chance to be around you long enough to express what he feels and wants from you.

 

The same situation applies when a guy invites you over for dinner.

 

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He is asking you out on a date, depending on how long you will be around each other which determines what he will want to do.

 

If he is a guy who has been showing you signs that he is interested in you — always talks to you, spends a lot of time with you, touches you randomly, and even jokes about dating you, he is asking you out on a date.

 

When you go over for the drinks, that is when he will make his move on you by expressing what he feels for you either by words or actions.

 

But if he has never shown any romantic interest in you other than a purely platonic relationship, he only wants to hang out with you that is why he is inviting you over.

 

This is why he invites you over for drinks;

1. He wants to hang out with you.

When a guy invites you for drinks it means he wants to hang out with you.

 

He wants to spend time with you the drink is just an excuse to get you to go over.

 

When a guy likes spending time with you he will always want you to be around him.

 

If he is just a friend, just know that he wants to spend time with you alone at his place, bar, or coffee shop.

 

The moment a guy enjoys your company he will always want to have you around.

 

He will make any excuses just to get to come over to your house or invite you over to his.

 

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2. He wants to treat you.

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If a guy wants invites you over for drinks he just wants to treat you.

 

When a guy wants to show you that he cares and makes you happy, he will offer to buy you drinks.

 

It’s one way of saying that he is happy that you are there for him when he needs you.

 

If you buy him drinks once in a while he also wants to return the favour and that is why he invites you over for drinks.

 

He is going to spend his money to get you the drinks you want to show you a gesture of appreciation.

 

When he does that it will keep you on a loop. You will also think of inviting him over for drinks another time.

 

You will treat someone who treats you.

 

On the other hand, if a guy just wants to get you close to him and give you a gesture that he cares about you he will invite you over for drinks.

 

It can be that he is just searching for a way to get super interactive with you.

 

Most guys usually give out things to women to get them to be close to them.

 

You might meet a man in a bar and he will want to buy you a drink.

 

This is just to treat you, and make you happy thus making it easier for him to keep the conversation with you going.

 

It’s a treat — that will make you feel that he is a great guy and it won’t hurt to talk to him for some minutes while having drinks.

 

When a guy gives something, he expects something in return. If he is treating you, he is hoping to get something out of that.

 

3. He wants to get to know you better.

If he is a guy you just met and he is now inviting you over for drinks, he wants to get the chance to know you better.

 

He knows that when you accept to go over for the drinks that he invited you for — he will get to spend so much time with you and talk to you.

 

In the process, you might start talking about your life if you like the vibe.

 

He will also start sharing with you everything about himself to get you to open up more to him.

 

After a few drinks, he will know a little bit about you.

 

When a guy wants to get to know you via drinks, this shows that he is interested in you.

 

He likes what he sees and he wants to get the chance to explore more about you.

 

If a guy isn’t interested in you, he won’t bother to spend his time with you.

 

It’s normal for guys to invite you over for drinks when they are after an opportunity to get to know you better.

 

Knowing you better is what will give him the chance to pull you closer to him since he will understand how to handle you.

 

The moment a guy knows you better that is when he determines if you fit his category or not.

 

Anyway, it’s easier to connect with someone easily on a comfortable and joyous occasion.

 

He knows that having drinks with you will loosen you up thus pushing you to talk about everything he wants to hear.

 

An easy way to get to know you better and observe the kind of a person you are.

 

4. He wants to make a move on you.

People cheering while drinking

If a guy wants you to go over to his place for drinks, he wants to make his move on you.

 

Especially if he is someone who is interested in you and has been trying so hard to win you.

 

The drinks aren’t the main reason why he wants you to go over, he has something else in mind.

 

If he is inviting you over for drinks at his place and it will be just the two of you — he will make a jump on you.

 

Read also; When A Guy Invites You To His House: It Means?

 

He will express what he feels for you using words or actions.

 

After a few drinks, you might be open to suggestions and that is his window to start touching you, talk sexually to you to get you in the mood, and eventually get into your pants.

 

Read also; What Does It Mean When A Guy Talks Sexually To You?

 

If the drinks he is inviting you over for are alcoholic, just know that he wants to get you drunk and then make a move on you.

 

Lastly…

If a guy is inviting you over for drinks just know that he is asking you out on a date.

 

He wants to spend time with you over the drinks, get to know you and eventually connect with you.

 

If he is a friendly guy who has never expressed his interest in you, he wants to hang out with you and that is why he invited you over for drinks.

 

When a guy invites you over for drinks at his house and you know that it will be just the two of you — he wants to make a romantic move on you.

 

He will want to touch you, miss you, romance and get into your pants.

 

So, if he is someone you don’t know and you don’t trust him, don’t go over to his house or hotel when he invites you over for drinks.

 

He may want to drug you and take advantage of you. Be careful with the people you choose to accept their invitation.

 

When a guy invites you over for drinks and you aren’t interested, you should let him know that you can’t accept his invitation.

 

You can give him some excuses just to throw him off the radar if you want to give him the impression that you don’t like him.

 

But if you want to go over for the drinks since you are interested in him and you want to know him more, accept the invitation.

 

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