Ali When a girl wants to cuddle with you, she feels super comfy around you.
If she wants to get physical with you it shows that your relationship with her is beyond the normal friendship.
She is so close to you; how you treat her makes her feel completely free around you, and it can be that she is into you.
What she is doing is just pushing you to a position for you to make a move on her.
When a girl wants something more from you — it’s always harder for her to directly say it to you.
Most girls usually use signs to show that they want something more, it will be up to the guy to figure things out.
Before we get caught up in details about what her intentions are, let me share what it means when a girl wants to cuddle with you.
What does it mean when a girl wants to cuddle with you?
When a girl wants to cuddle with you it means she wants to get physical with you — make you initiate a romantic move on her, she feels comfortable with you and she is probably into you.
If a girl wants to cuddle with you this shows that she wants to be in your arms.
She is aware you are a man and she might end up arousing you but she doesn’t care about that.
She is not worried that you will start caressing her and get your hands all over her.
This shows that she wants and expects you to make a romantic move on her and that is why she wants to cuddle with you.
She wants your touch, she wants to feel your warmth and enjoy laying on your chest.
If she didn’t want anything other than that she wouldn’t have suggested what she did.
When a girl wants you to get physical with her it may be that she is interested in you romantically.
If a girl wants you to make a move on her — she will put you in situations that will force you to do that.
Especially when she has realized that you have feelings for her but you haven’t made things clear.
What you should understand is that a girl may want to cuddle with you, and want you to get physical with her but that doesn’t mean she wants a relationship with you.
She may want to cuddle with you because she wants the warmth of your body and there is no one else around to give her that but you.
As long as a girl feels comfortable around you, she will let you caress her and even kiss her.
She won’t find it a big deal as long as she gets what she wants — your touch, attention for the moment, and warmth.
When a girl wants to cuddle with you it’s a good sign that she is so close to you.
She doesn’t put physical limits when it comes to you because she has feelings for you.
What she knows is that letting herself loose when she is next to you, might spark up a fire of events that will lead to what she wants.
She may have not made it clear that she wants something more from you, but she is willing to let the course of what will happen between the two of you determine what label you will put on the relationship.
This is why she wants to cuddle with you;
1. She feels comfortable around you.
When it reaches a point where a girl gets physical with you it shows that she feels super comfortable with you.
Sometimes when a girl is comfortable around you it’s a good sign, but in some cases, it shows that you can’t get more than what she gives you.
I will talk about that for a minute, for now, let me enlighten how her state makes her suggest that she wants to cuddle with you.
When a girl feels comfortable around you she will let herself loose. She will do and say anything she feels like.
She will feel free to talk and do anything with you because you are a person she has developed a connection with that puts her in her comfort zone.
The connection she has with you is something usual to her. She doesn’t feel it’s beyond her reach.
She knows that you won’t judge her, ask her questions, or make her feel bad for doing anything with you.
The aspect of safety and comfort when she is around is what makes her want to do anything with you.
When a girl feels at ease whenever she is around you — she will open up to you about anything that bothers her and what she feels.
She will tell you about her needs even though she knows you won’t help her with anything.
The only joy she will get is by you listening to her and giving her attention.
You are within her reach and that is why she doesn’t find it a big deal to want to cuddle with you.
She knows it’s not a big deal cuddling with you because she feels at ease and safe around you.
Your relationship has brought the two of you closer to each other so that it doesn’t feel like she is out of the boundary.
When it comes to the two of you everything seems simple.
I told you earlier that this may be either a good or bad thing.
If she is so comfortable around you because she considers you nothing more than a friend and there is nothing big that can happen between the two of you — you won’t go beyond that point.
When a girl feels so comfortable around you because she is super friendly to you, it will be hard for you to change things between the two of you.
You are automatically put in the friend zone and there is nothing you can do to change that.
She may let you kiss her and even cuddle with you but she won’t allow anything more other than that.
That’s the danger of being super close to a girl for a while without making a move on her.
She will just conclude you are just a guy friend and someone so close to her and she may not want to change that.
On the other side, if she feels comfortable around you to want to cuddle with you it shows that she is willing to let you do things with her.
She is open-minded about anything that can happen between the two of you.
You may have not expressed your feelings for her but she feels things between the two of you are clear.
The path you should take is seen. And she is getting physical with you for you to know that she is ready for what is coming next.
2. She wants you to make a move on her.
When a girl wants to cuddle with you it means she wants you to make a romantic move on her.
Deep down she knows you both have feelings for each other — the sexual tension between the two of you is super strong.
When she looks at you all she can think of is being in your arms and laying on your chest.
She doesn’t want to talk about it but she is willing to let actions take the lead.
It’s not that she is not aware of the position she is putting you in. She knows that she will get you hard but she wants to do it anyway.
She knows when you yearn for her, you will finally make your move when she is in your arms.
That is what she wants you to do and that is why she wants to cuddle with you.
She is making the first step of getting into your arms and so close to you, the rest is up to you.
The truth is, if she didn’t want you to touch her, kiss her, and turn things around with her, she wouldn’t have suggested cuddling with you.
She is aware that the physical touch between the two of you will spark up something romantic but she does it because that is what she wants.
When she is in your arms cuddling with you, she will let you put your hands all over her.
Don’t be surprised when she turns the table around and find yourselves on top of each other.
3. She wants you to know how she feels about you.
When a girl wants to cuddle with you it’s another way of showing you how she feels about you.
She wants you to know that she wants your company, your touch, and your attention.
It also shows that she has romantic feelings for you and that is why she wants to cuddle with you.
She is sure that when she starts showing you the signs you will end up figuring out what she wants from you.
If she cuddles with you and lets you hold her tight in your arms, you will conclude that there is something more between the two of you other than friendship.
What she does and requests from you is what will make you conclude how she feels about you.
She wants to cuddle with you knowing that you will conclude from this.
It’s like she is telling you that she feels something for you, it’s time for you to show her if you feel the same way about her or not.
If you are interested in her you won’t hold yourself, she expects that from you.
4. She wants to use you for the moment.
When a girl wants to cuddle with you it doesn’t necessarily mean that she has feelings for you.
A girl may give you her body but she won’t have an intention of being in a serious relationship with you.
So, when a girl wants to cuddle with you it doesn’t mean that there is something more she wants from you.
She is having a moment and that is why she wants to be in your arms.
It can be that she just feels down, she feels cold or she just wants your touch and attention — that is why she wants to cuddle with you.
There is nothing more she wants from you other than the cuddles.
She is having fun with you, pushing time, and getting what she wants from you.
There is no one else around who can give her what she wants. She wants your attention and you are the guy who can give her that.
She is just using you for the moment. Do what you want with her but you will never get hold of her.
Cuddling with you doesn’t mean a big deal to her. Right now, you are what she can get and she is making use of the chance.
So, when a girl wants to cuddle with you it doesn’t mean that she is completely open for grabs.
She is using you for the moment — use each other and enjoy the company, if you want more from her let it all out and hear what she will say to you.
Lastly…
When a girl wants to cuddle with you and you feel comfortable with her being in your arms let her do it.
But if you aren’t comfortable with her doing it let her know the truth.
If you are interested in her let her cuddle with you. This may be the chance you have to make your statement to her.
When she is in your arms caress her body and see how she is going to respond, if she responds positively it’s a sign that she is down for what you want.
This shows that you are on the same page but don’t let that stop there. You need to communicate to her.
Let her know how you feel about her and what you want from her and listen to what she will say.
You don’t need to go along with everything she wants even if you have feelings for her. It can be that she is just using you for the time being.
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