When A Girl Wants To Come Over To Your House: It Means?

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When a girl wants to come over to your house just know that she wants to spend some alone time with you.

 

The first thing you may conclude is that she wants you to make a move on her.

 

But that may not be the only reason why she wants to come over to your place.

 

In this article, I will share several possible reasons why she wants to come over to your house, but before that, you should know what it means.

 

What does it mean when a girl wants to come over to your house?

When a girl wants to come over to your house it means she wants to hang out with you alone, she wants you to make a romantic move on her and she just wants to have fun hanging out with you at your place.

 

If a girl wants to come over just know that she wants the opportunity to have enough time with you alone.

 

She wants some privacy with you so that you get to connect and if possible push you to make a romantic move on her.

 

Before you conclude that she only wants to come over to your house because she wants sex, first you have to observe your relationship with her.

 

If she has been handling you as a friend and she has never shown you any romantic gestures, she doesn’t want sex with you.

 

She only wants to come over because she just wants to hang out with you.

 

But if she has shown you that she is interested in you — she touches you randomly when you are around her, she initiates communications, she wants to go out with you frequently and she cares so much about you, she wants you to make a move on her.

 

If she is confident she won’t even wait for you to make a move on her, she will initiate the romantic move.

 

To summarize the meaning, if a girl wants to come over to your house it either means she wants to chill with you or she wants you to make romantic moves on her that will lead to sex.

 

This is why she wants to come over to your house;

1. She just wants to hang out with you alone.

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The first thing you should know is this; she wants to come over to your place because she just wants to hang out with you alone.

 

It can be that you have been meeting up on the coffee shops and restaurants for a while and she would like to change the scene.

 

She wants to hang out with you alone so that she gets to see you for who you truly are.

 

This girl knows that by coming to your house, it will only be two of you which will give her the chance to know you better.

 

She has seen the way you handle her in public and she also wants to know how you will treat her when it’s just the two of you.

 

It can be that you haven’t expressed your feelings to her — you are still in the talking stage but she wants to see how amazing it be can when it’s just the two of you.

 

When a girl wants to hang out with you alone sometimes it is because she wants to make you feel comfortable and free to talk about anything.

 

It’s like she wants you to only pay attention to her so that you say and do what you truly want.

 

This can only happen when it’s just the two of you at your place.

 

So, when a girl says she wants to come over to your house, this shows that she wants to turn things around.

2. She wants you to make romantic moves on her.

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If a girl wants to come over to your house she wants you to make a move on her.

 

She knows that when it’s just the two of you and while there are intense feelings, you will find yourself initiating the romantic moves.

 

Sometimes when a girl wants something from you it will be hard for her to say it directly to you.

 

All you will see from her are the signs and paths for you to follow.

 

Most girls aren’t confident enough to express their feelings through words or actions.

 

What they will do is just put you in situations that will show you what she wants.

 

She wants to come over to your house so that it’s just the two of you, if you have feelings for her you might find yourself getting closer to her.

 

It’s not that she doesn’t know what she is doing, everything is clear to her. She expects you to try and initiate romantic moves on her.

 

She knows that you might want to touch and kiss her.

 

It can be that this is what she wants, but you won’t know for sure until you make the move.

 

If she is someone who has been showing you that she is into you romantically, just know that this is what she is hoping for.

 

But if she has never given you any romantic gesture — she has always treated you as a friend and nothing more, that is not what she may be coming for.

3. She feels comfortable around you.

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When a girl wants to come over to your house sometimes it is not that she wants something from you.

 

Your relationship with her is what will either make it easier for her to want to be alone with you or not.

 

The way she feels when she is around you is what will push a woman to want some alone time with you.

 

It can be that she is just a friend, you have been talking for a while, you know each other better and she feels comfortable around you.

 

Deep down she knows that you will never do anything to hurt her.

 

She trusts you with all her heart. And she feels you will always treat her nicely when she is around you.

 

Your relationship with her is on another level. She enjoys being around you and that is why she wants to come over to your place.

 

When a girl feels at ease and safe around you, she won’t care whether she has to come and hang out with you at your place or the beach.

 

If you have noticed that she shares with you details about her life, she tells you about her family and she even tells you her weaknesses, she trusts you.

 

She is not worried that when she comes over to your house you will push her to do something she doesn’t want to.

 

If she is just a friend, she knows that you will always hold your limits when you are around her.

 

She feels safe with you and she just wants to talk and have fun at your place for hours.

 

You have never given her a reason to think the worst of you and that is why she is willing to come over to your house.

 

She feels comfortable with you — since she knows you better, she trusts you and she feels safe whenever she is with you.

4. She wants you to know that she cares about you.

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I told you earlier that it is hard for girls to express their feelings simply because they aren’t that confident.

 

Girls will just show you some signs that will enable you to know what they want and think about you.

 

If a girl is willing to come over to your place she wants you to know that she cares about you.

 

She wants to be around you — to comfort you, make you smile, and keep you company.

 

A woman who doesn’t care about you will never want to be around you. She will never sacrifice her time for you.

 

If she doesn’t care about you she won’t even want to meet up with you.

 

But if she is willing to go the extra mile just to come over to your place to check up on you and hang out with you, she cares so much about you.

 

If you are just friends just know that she genuinely cares about you and that is why she wants to come over to your house.

 

What you should know is that when a girl cares about you, she may just want to be on your right side as a good friend or she wants you to know that she wants more from you.

 

Otherwise, you won’t know anything about what she wants from you unless you make the move of expressing how you feel about her.

5. She wants to have sex with you.

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If a girl says she wants to come over to your place and you know that she has been giving you romantic vibes, she wants to have sex with you.

 

It’s easier to notice if she wants to have sex or not because this will be revealed the moment she enters the door.

 

Even before she reaches your place, the conversations you will have with her will show what she wants and expects from you.

 

She may be all over of a sudden so nice to you, so affectionate, and talks about how much she misses you.

 

At times she will send you photos of her trying on different clothes.

 

All of these things she does is just to get you to want her more.

 

At times she will talk sexually to you and start suggesting that she just wants to be around you.

 

If this is what she has been doing for a while, it’s clear that she wants to have sex with you and that is why she wants to come over to your place.

 

Another thing you will notice is how she handles herself when she is at your place — she will let herself loose next to you.

 

The vibe will be so captivating, she will be dressed in a way that makes you notice her beauty and she will even sit on your bed instead of the sofa.

 

If she wants to have sex with you, she will get so close to you physically and touch you randomly just to give you a gesture that she wants you to get on her.

6. She is curious about what you feel for her.

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She may be unsure about how you feel for her and what you want from her.

 

You are always nice to her, you spend more time with her and you even help her when she is stranded.

 

You have never told her what you feel about her.

 

She is just curious to know where your heart is when it comes to how you feel about her.

 

The thing is that she can’t just ask you how you feel about her because she doesn’t want you to think that she is into you.

 

Instead, she is putting you in a situation that will enable you to express what you feel for her.

 

She knows that when it’s just the two of you in your house it will be enough for her to know what you feel for her.

 

If you initiate a romantic move on her, she will know that you want something more from her.

 

But if you do not make any moves on her other than just hang out with her, play video games, listen to music, and watch movies, she will conclude you don’t want anything more from her other than friendship.

 

On the other side of the coin, it can be that she wants to see your reaction.

 

If she tells you that she wants to come over to your house you will have no choice but to give her a response.

 

The response you will give her is what she will also use to determine what you feel for her.

 

If she tells you that she wants to come over to your house and you say no, she will conclude you don’t have feelings for her.

 

But if you gladly invite her to come over after she has told you, she will know that you have feelings for her and you will probably make a move on her.

7. She wants to know where you stay.

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If she doesn’t know where you stay, if she says she wants to come over to your place, it’s just a way to know your location.

 

She knows that if she wants to come over you will have no choice but to give her directions or you will go and pick her up.

 

If she knows where you stay, she will be inviting herself. Don’t be surprised when she asks you to give her one of your keys.

 

She also wants to see how you have arranged your place to get a sense of the kind of a guy you are.

 

You will know a man better when you see where he stays.

 

She wants to get to know you better and gauge the kind of a person you are.

 

If she finds that your house is fancy and well kept she will conclude you know how to handle and take care of yourself.

 

She just wants to get to know you better and the only way she will do that is to see more than what you talk about when you are with her in the streets.

 

Lastly…

When a girl wants to come over to your house it can either be that she wants to have sex or just hang out with you.

 

What she wants and expects from you mainly depends on your relationship with her.

 

If she is your girlfriend just know that she expects more from you other than talking to her.

 

But if she is just a friend, this shows that she only wants to chill and have a good time with you.

 

When a girl wants to come over to your place, allow her to come over. Don’t start asking her questions about why she wants to.

 

These kinds of questions will only give her an impression that you don’t want her around and this might push her away.

 

Don’t think so hard about why she wants to come over to your house, everything will be revealed when she is there.

Ali

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