6 Reasons Why He Wants You To Call Him

A woman thinking if she should call the man who asked him to call

What you know is that guys are the ones who initiate conversations most of the time. But this guy wants you to call him after he has given you his number.

 

When a guy wants you to make an effort to call him, he wants to know what you feel about him.

 

He is observing if you are interested in him. The truth is that if he wants you to initiate the call you will do it if you like him.

 

You won’t bother calling if you don’t want anything to do with him.

 

Anyway, there are several reasons why a guy would ask you to call him. In this article, I will explain them.

 

Before that, you have to know what it means if a guy asks you to call him.

 

What does it mean when a guy asks you to call him?

When a guy asks you to call him it means he wants to talk to you—he has something to share and he wants to know if you are interested in him to make the effort to initiate the call. If he doesn’t have your number just know that he wants to get it.

 

If a guy doesn’t want to be seen so desperate begging for a number, he will give you his number and ask you to call him.

 

Especially if it’s when you are getting to know each other. He gave you his number but you didn’t give him yours.

 

Some guys are usually afraid of being seen desperate by asking for a phone number.

 

It’s kinda like he playing cool to make you believe that he is not so much into you.

 

He doesn’t want you to realize how he feels about you.

 

There is more you should know for you to understand why he asked you to call him instead of him doing it.

 

This is why he wants you to call him;

1. He wants to talk to you.

A woman thinking if she should call the man who asked him to call

 

When a guy asks you to be in touch with him the first thing is that he has something to share with you.

 

He wants to talk to you about something and that is why he asked you to do it.

 

If it is when you have met, he wants to get to know you. To get to know you better, the conversation you will have with him will be the first step.

 

Read also; When A Guy Wants To Get To Know You Better: It Means?

 

The more you share with him about yourself the more he will get to know you.

 

If he wants to talk to you it can be that he wants to establish a connection with you, tell you more about himself and eventually express his feelings to you.

 

That is usually the main reason why a guy would want to talk to you.

 

He asked you to reach out to him to keep the ball rolling.

 

2. He may be too busy to call you.

If he is a guy who has a lot of things to handle it will be hard for him to remember to call you.

 

He is too busy to call you because his schedule is tight. If you won’t reach out it will be hard for him to remember that he had to talk to you.

 

This is true especially if it’s when you are getting to know each other and you don’t have a deep connection with each other.

 

He wants you to call him because you will remind him that he has to reach out to you after he is done with what you are doing.

 

If he is a guy who has his life figured out and he is chasing bigger things in life he has principles, know that he is a super busy dude.

 

He won’t call you when he is in the middle of something very important.

 

If he is occupied for the rest of the day, he won’t remember that he had to talk to you.

 

When you reach out to him, later on, he will also try to get in touch with you when he is done with his work.

 

3. He wants to get your number if he gives you his.

If a guy gave you his number and asked you to call him know that he wants to get your number.

 

He doesn’t want to ask you for your phone number directly and that is why he asked you to reach out to him.

 

Some guys are usually afraid of asking for phone numbers since they don’t know how you may respond.

 

If he asks for your phone number and you say no to him it will only wreck him.

 

So, when he asks you to call him, he is protecting his feelings from being hurt.

 

If you will initiate the conversation he will be happy about it and if you don’t he will assume that you forgot— not that you didn’t want him to have your number.

 

It could be that he was in a hurry. He didn’t have the time to sit around and talk to you and he wanted you to call him to get your phone number.

 

He will only get your number when you reach out to him, but if you don’t there won’t be a conversation between the two of you.

 

If you are interested in him you should reach out to him. But if you aren’t into him don’t call him.

 

4. He wants to know how you feel about him.

It can be that you have met, talked for a while and he finally decided to give you his phone number.

 

He is not sure about how you feel about him. It has been hard for him to read the signs.

 

How will he know what you feel for him by just calling him?

 

He has your number but before he left he asked you to reach out to him.

 

You are asking yourself, why doesn’t he do it?

 

The answer is simple, he wants to know what you feel about him.

 

If you are interested in him, you like his company and you want the conversation to keep going you will call him so fast without hesitating.

 

But if you don’t like him, he is boring and he is not the kind of a guy you want to be in touch with, you won’t bother calling.

 

When you reach out to him it will be a good sign. He will know that there is something to be explored.

 

5. He wants to know if you can put in the effort.

When a man wants to know if you can put effort into a relationship, he will put you through some tests.

 

It can be that you have agreed to date, but he is not sure where your mind is truly at.

 

You don’t seem serious because you don’t make the effort to initiate the communication.

 

He has been calling you every day but you rarely reach out when he doesn’t.

 

When he asks you to call him just know that he wants to see if you are serious about the relationship.

 

If you are serious about it you will make the effort to reach out to him. But if you aren’t into it you will just ignore him.

 

The moment you call him after he has asked you, he will conclude that you are ready to commit to the relationship.

 

So, the standing point of your relationship with him depends on your ability to do what he wants you to.

 

If he is tired to be always initiating the calls, he won’t call you anymore unless you do.

 

6. He likes it when a woman initiates conversations.

Men like it when women initiate communication. It makes them feel loved and cared for.

 

It’s kinda sexy when the woman makes the first move.

 

In most cases, guys are usually the ones who make the effort to make the first move.

 

When a woman takes the lead in initiating the conversation men like it.

 

So, if he wants you to call him when he can do it, this shows that he enjoys it when you do it.

 

MORE TO KNOW

He wants me to call him often.

When a guy wants you to call him often it means he enjoys talking to you, he wants to keep the conversation with you going and he wants to know that he is never tired of talking to you.

 

He told me to call him any time.

When a guy wants you to call him anytime it means he is permitting you to call him any time since he is always online, he will always have time to respond to your call and talk to you.

 

He doesn’t want you to ask yourself questions when it comes to the appropriate time for you to be in touch with him.

 

It can be that he thinks you are afraid he won’t pick up your calls at certain hours.

 

He wants to get rid of your doubts and that is why he says you can reach out to him anytime you want to.

 

Do guys like it when you call them?

Yes! Guys like it when women call them first. It makes them feel loved, special, wanted, and cared for.

 

But when they are always the ones making the effort to call it makes them feel like they are the ones forcing the relationship.

 

He told me to call him but he didn’t answer.

He told you to call him but didn’t answer because he might have been so busy or he was far from his phone. He wanted to talk to you and that is why he asked you to initiate the call. If he didn’t intend to talk to you he wouldn’t have asked you to call.

 

Should I call him if he didn’t answer?

If you have called him thrice but didn’t answer your call don’t call him again. He will reach out to you if he values your communication. Don’t give him a reason to think that you are too desperate for his attention.

 

Lastly…

When a guy wants you to call him the first thing you should know is that he wants to talk to you— he has something to share with you.

 

If he doesn’t have your number just know that it’s one way of him getting your number.

 

He will only manage to have your number on his phone when you reach out.

 

Another thing you should know when a guy asks you to initiate a call is that he wants to know how you feel about him and think about your communication.

 

If you like him, you like talking to him and you want to keep the vibe going, you will make the effort to reach out to him.

 

You won’t push yourself to call if you don’t find a reason to.

 

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