Ali When a guy wants you to call him there is an angle he is trying to hit. Most guys will make the effort of initiating a conversation when they are interested in you.
You may be surprised about why he asked you to reach out instead of him doing it when he showed interest in you.
If a guy asks you to call him, he wants to know how you feel about being in touch with him and if you will make an effort to reach out to him or not.
There is more you can conclude when a man asks you to call him instead of him doing it.
Before we get caught up on details, let me share with you what it means first.
What does it mean when a guy wants you to call him?
When a guy wants you to call him it means he wants to talk to you and he would like you to make an effort to reach out. If you call him, he will surely know that you are interested to hear what he has to say.
The first thing you should know is that it has something to do with what he wants to share with you.
He wants to talk to you and that is why he wants you to call him.
There is something he wants to share with you — it may have something to do with how he feels about you, something to do with his life or just checking if you are ready to make an effort.
I will talk more about this as I explain in detail as we go deeper into this article.
So, just know that he wants to talk to you about something important and that is why he wants you to call.
If he gave you his number and he never took yours, he wants you to call him so that he gets yours.
This is the first part of him trying to be in touch with you. When a guy wants to be in touch with you, he wants to explore more about you.
You can’t know for sure what he thinks and feels about you unless you make contact and hear what he has to say.
This is how things roll with guys.
This is why he wants you to call him;
1. He wants to get your number.
If it’s a guy you just met, you talked for a while and eventually you took his number but he didn’t manage to get yours — he wants you to call him so that he can get yours.
Some guys find it harder to ask for a phone number, it doesn’t matter whether you asked him for his number or he gave it to you.
He wants you to call him so that he gets your number. If you won’t call him there is no way he will ever be in touch with you.
So, if it’s a guy you are getting to know and you are interested in getting to see the kind of a man he is, call him.
When he has your number the conversation will flow and you will eventually know why he wanted to be in touch with you.
But if you don’t call him, you won’t know why he wanted to talk to you and that may be the end of your conversation unless you meet again in person.
If he asked for your number and you didn’t give it to him, just know that he wants to get your number.
But if he never asked for your number but gave you his, he is kinda playing it cool.
He doesn’t want you to think that he wants to be in touch with you so badly.
And that is why he didn’t ask for your number but gave you his and asked you to call him.
The truth is that he wants to talk to you so badly though he didn’t want you to notice that.
2. He wants to know more about you.
If you have just met recently and he asked you to call him, this is the starting point of your connection.
He wants to get to know more about you and that is why he wants to be in touch with you.
If you will reach out to him, he will have the chance of opening up to you about his life and you will eventually find that you are also doing the same.
Deep down he knows you are also curious to find out why he wanted to talk to you.
If you will call him that is when he will start asking you questions to get to know you better.
When a guy wants to get to know you the first thing he will do is maintain a communication line with you.
He will want you to be close to him, open up to him, and share your pain and happiness with him, and through that, he will get to know the kind of a person you are.
If a guy wants to get to know you better — he is interested in you but still, he wants to see if you are fit for him.
Checking out if you guys can vibe the way he wants you to.
If it turns out that you are not the kind of a woman he thought you were that is when he will slowly start to cut you off and you won’t hear from him again.
3. He wants to express what he feels for you.
If it’s a guy you know and you have been in touch with for a while, he has finally decided to shoot his shot.
He wants to express what he feels for you and that is why he asked you to reach out to him.
It can be that he has been hiding in the shadow of friendship while pretending that he is okay with being friends with you, but the truth is that he wants something more.
When a guy asks you to call him, he knows you will be curious and this will push you to make the call.
Especially if he has always been calling you but today he asked you to reach out to him.
Since he knows the two of you are close, you will want to know what he wants to say and you will be forced to call him.
Maybe he thought calling you would only make things uncomfortable — maybe you will be busy with other issues and he might end up distracting you.
You won’t give him the attention he wants and it won’t be a good thing for him.
So, he wants you to call him when you are free and you have enough time on your end to hear what he has to say.
If a guy is so concerned about this, just know that he wants to let everything out that he has been holding on for a while.
4. He wants to know how you feel about him.
Guys are smart, if they want to know how you feel about them they will put you on tests.
When a guy wants to know how you feel about him — he will ask you to do things for him just to see how you are going to respond.
If you respond negatively, he will know that you don’t feel the way he thought you felt about him.
The truth is that if you like him and he wants you to call him, you won’t hesitate. That will be the first thing you will do.
You will prioritize him over everything else — you won’t do anything until you make sure that you have talked to him.
When you make a guy your priority he will know about it and that is what he will use to judge how you feel about him.
But if you will take hours or even forget to call him, he will conclude that you are distracted and he is probably not the only guy you talk to.
If you will call him that will be a good sign that you care about him and you are willing to let everything else slide just to talk to him.
Maybe he wants to know how you feel about him before he makes a move on you.
It’s just a simple thing that he asked you to do but it can result in so many theories that he can use to gauge how you feel about him.
He wants you to call him — you will only do it if you think he is worth your time and effort, but if that isn’t what you feel, you will ignore him.
5. He wants to know if you can put in an effort.
Maybe he talked to you and expressed what he feels for you and you finally decided that you should give the relationship a shot.
Your relationship with him is still in the early stages — you all want to see how things will turn out to be.
When a guy asks you to do something that requires you to put effort into it, this is just a test.
He wants to know if you are ready to put in all the effort to move the relationship forward.
A relationship requires commitment and effort, if he thinks you don’t have it in you — he thinks what you are building will collapse.
If you make an effort to call him without making a big deal out of it, he will know that you are willing to make things work.
He knows that you are also into him and you are ready to put in all effort to make the relationship work.
But if you don’t call him, he will use that to conclude that you aren’t serious about him.
And that is what he will use to make the decision that he thinks it’s right for him.
6. He likes it when you call him.
Most guys like it when a woman initiates calls. It makes them feel special and wanted.
If a guy wants you to call him often it means he enjoys talking to you and he wants you to keep the communication with him going.
When a guy likes it when you call him, he will ask you to call him anytime you feel like just to show you that he is ready to pick up your call the minute you call it doesn’t matter when it will be.
Most of the time, men are the ones who make an effort to pursue.
Men chase women they are interested in to ensure they have them close.
This means they have to make an effort to maintain the communication. They will call you often more than you do.
But when it turns out that it’s the woman they are interested in who makes the effort to stay in touch, it makes them feel so special.
Guys like it when women call them often instead of them doing it.
He likes it when you call him because it makes him feel loved and cared for.
It also makes him feel that you are both on the same page and that is why you made the effort of calling him.
FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS
Do guys like it when you call them?
Guys like it when a girl calls them because it makes them feel that they have occupied your life and they mean something more to you.
Should I call him if he didn’t answer?
If a guy asked you to call him and you did it but he didn’t answer, you should wait about half an hour and try to reach out to him again. If he won’t answer stop calling him. He will call you when he gets to his phone and see your missed calls.
When you call a guy more than twice and he doesn’t answer his phone yet you know that that is not his norm, just be patient he will reach out to you.
Don’t leave a guy more than 3 missed calls because he will think you are so desperate.
If a guy told you to call him but he didn’t answer it may be that he was busy. Just wait a few hours when he gets to his phone he will call you.
It doesn’t make sense that he wanted you to call him and to talk to you but not pick up your calls.
Lastly…
If a guy wants you to call him the first thing you should know is that he wants to be in touch with you.
The second thing is that he wants to express what he feels for you and it’s through that call that he will get the opportunity.
If he doesn’t have your phone number, he just wants to get hold of it.
When a guy wants to talk to you it’s all about creating a connection with you, getting to know you, and eventually making a move on you.
The moment a guy wants you to call him — you should only do it if you are interested in knowing what he wants to say.
But if you don’t like him and you don’t want to waste your time and effort on him, don’t call him. It’s as simple as that.
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