How To Know If He Still Likes You After You Rejected Him

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If you want to know if he still likes you after you have rejected him, there are things you should observe.

 

The way he talks to you handles himself before after the rejection, and what he does for you after that.

 

You may reject a guy but that won’t stop him from being nice and kind to you.

 

It may even make him closer to you because he still wants to give you a positive impression so you can change your mind about him.

 

There are things that guys do after you have rejected them but they are still into you — their actions reveal how they feel about you.

 

In this article, I will share with you the signs that you will come across if a guy still likes you even after you have rejected him.

 

These are the signs he still likes you after you rejected him;

1. He never gives up on you.

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This is the first sign you will come across when a guy still likes you after you rejected him.

 

A guy with genuine feelings for you will never walk away from you the moment you reject him after expressing his feelings for you.

 

He will convince himself that you might end up changing your mind about him and you will eventually let him in.

 

So, if you rejected him — you made it pretty clear to him that you don’t want anything to do with him because you don’t love him or have feelings for him, but he still comes harder on you, he still likes you.

 

He has feelings for you and it’s not likely that you are going to get rid of him anytime soon.

 

It’s not that he doesn’t know what you told him about what he wants from you.

 

He knows you don’t want to be with him but still keeps pursuing you.

 

The moment you see a man persistently seducing you even after you have rejected him several times, this means he still likes you.

 

Your rejection doesn’t mean anything to him, he doesn’t even see that you don’t love him, and all he sees is that there is still a chance.

 

You push him away, block him, and even do things to intentionally hurt him so that he walks away, but he keeps coming back for you.

 

If this is what you are experiencing from him after you said no to him, he still has feelings for you.

 

The guys who are not into you the moment you reject them will give up on you.

 

Read also; I Rejected Him And He Gave Up: 6 Reasons Why

 

2. He still initiates conversations with you.

This is another way to let you know if a guy still likes you after you rejected him — he still initiates conversations with you.

 

You rejected him but he still talks to you when he sees you.

 

He is the first to say hi to you and start small talk with you like nothing happened between you.

 

You expected him to be cold and distant after you rejected him but he is so cool.

 

He acts like you have never told him that you can’t date him.

 

He keeps calling and texting you just like he used to when he was pursuing you.

 

The texts are still the same, the words he says to you are just the same. He is composed and seems happy to talk to you.

 

The rejection doesn’t seem to affect him in any way, that is what you think.

 

Deep down he is hurt because you rejected him but that doesn’t stop him from talking to you.

 

He talks to you every time you reject him because he knows there is a chance you will open your heart to him.

 

A guy will be optimistic to have you in his life after you reject him when he thinks you are likely to change your mind about him.

 

That is mostly brought about by how you handle him, talk to him, and what you do when you are with him.

 

If you have been nice to him even after you rejected him, don’t be surprised that he still initiates conversations with you.

 

You have given him a sign that you can change your mind about him. The moment a guy notices a tiny gesture that you can give him a shot even after you reject him, he will keep talking to you.

 

So, if he chats and calls you for hours even after you rejected him it means he still has feelings for you — he still likes you and that is why he is still around.

 

He doesn’t hate you because you rejected him, that may have given him more motivation to keep fighting harder for you to let him in.

 

3. He keeps expressing his feelings for you randomly.

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If a guy still likes you after you rejected him, he will keep expressing his feelings for you randomly.

 

He is aware that you told him that the two of you can’t be anything more than friends but that doesn’t stop him from trying to make you understand how much you mean to him.

 

Most guys don’t come back explaining how they feel about you after you have rejected them, they will cut you off the moment you tell them no.

 

Guys don’t come back expressing their feelings again after they have been rejected because they don’t want to be seen as desperate.

 

They don’t want to be considered as losers, their pride keeps them from trying again after they have been rejected.

 

For a guy who genuinely likes you, he won’t care about how you will perceive him when he comes back to you expressing his feelings.

 

He will humble himself before you as he tells you how he feels about you just for you to consider giving him a chance.

 

The way he will express his feelings for you may not be as active as he used to be before you rejected him.

 

He may be a little bit tense when he is around you since he is aware that you already told him that you don’t have feelings for him.

 

This will prevent him from being chicky and playful the way he was when he was next to you before.

 

Read also; When A Guy Acts Childish Around You: It Means?

 

If he used to touch you randomly that will stop in an attempt to give you an impression that he respects you and the decisions you made.

 

But he will still compliment you, tell you how much you mean to him, and say words to make you understand that he still has a thing for you.

 

If a guy still expresses how he feels about you even after you rejected him this shows that he still likes you.

 

He is expressing himself because he thinks you might end up changing your mind about him and take him in as your boyfriend.

 

4. He wants to befriend you after you have rejected him.

Let me be honest with you, most guys don’t befriend girls who reject them.

 

Most guys will want to cut the girl off and end the friendship when they have been rejected.

 

If a guy does the opposite — still befriends you even after you have rejected him this shows that he still likes you.

 

He still wants to be your friend after you rejected him (hurt him) because what he feels for you is bigger than what you inflicted on him.

 

What he feels for you is too big for him to let it go. Your rejection doesn’t compare to what he feels for you.

 

The truth is that it’s not that he wants to be friends with you because he wants to remain in the friend zone.

 

Most guys will tell you that they are okay being friends with you even after you have rejected them but that is not what they mean.

 

When a guy sees an opportunity to be closer to you than being far away from you, he will want to be close to you.

 

A guy will befriend you after you have rejected him knowing that he might convince you to be more than a friend.

 

Read also; “More Than Friends”: Its Meaning

 

 If a guy accepts to be your friend even after you rejected him it means he still likes you.

 

You mean so much to him and he doesn’t want to let go of you simply because you said no to him.

 

He befriends you because he is hoping to get closer to you and connect with you which will eventually help him win you in the future.

 

5. He still does things to impress you.

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If you reject a guy he will stop doing things to make you happy.

 

When he was pursuing you he was kind, caring, and loving — bought you gifts, he was there for you when you needed him and he helped you through lots of issues.

 

Most guys will stop doing all these things when you reject them. If he still does things to make you happy and to impress you, he still likes you.

 

If what he felt for you went away with your rejection he could have been distant.

 

The attention you used to get would have vanished. He could have been the last person to reach out to you.

 

If he still dresses to please you, buys you gifts, leaves notes behind for you, and does things that you like, this is a sign he is still interested in you.

 

Guys don’t do sh*t for women who rejected them, they don’t care about what they think about them and they despise them.

 

He is still trying to impress you after you rejected him because he thinks you might end up liking him enough to give him a chance.

 

So, if a guy still helps you, does things you like, impresses you in front of your friends, and seems to be into your business, he is still into you.

 

He is doing all these things because he has feelings for you, it’s just a way of asking you to reconsider how he feels about you.

 

6. He is still nice and kind to you.

Guys can be so mean and rude to women who have rejected them.

 

A man who used to care so much about your well-being may end up being the man who hates you the most when you reject him.

 

When you reject a man you are telling him that he is not good enough for you and he doesn’t deserve to be in your life — at least that is what they think.

 

Most guys take rejection personally and this makes them develop hatred towards the women who turned them down.

 

This is the same reason that makes them mean and cold to women who reject them.

 

So, if you reject him and he is still kind and nice to you, he still likes you.

 

You are still the woman he wants to be with even after you rejected him and that is why he is kind to you.

 

The truth is that he doesn’t have a reason to be nice and kind to you, why should he care about you when you have hurt him?

 

Why should he even be around you when you have made it clear he doesn’t mean anything to you?

 

If he is still there for you, talks nicely to you, and helps you when you are stranded, he is still in love with you.

 

Your rejection didn’t wipe away the love he has for you. You are still an important person in his life and he will keep fighting for you.

 

Guys are nice and kind to women because they usually want something from them. It’s their way of fishing for things from them.

 

If a guy is nice and kind to you when he shouldn’t be, this is a sign he still has deep feelings for you.

 

He still wants to be with you even after you rejected him.

 

7. He still gives you invitations.

If you reject a guy that will be the last day you will get his invitations from him.

 

He won’t ask you out on dates again, why should he spend money on a woman who doesn’t have feelings for him?

 

If he used to invite you to his house, that will stop when you reject him.

 

Read also; When A Guy Invites You To His House: It Means?

 

What he will do is cut off all his connections with you.

 

You used to hang out together, do many activities together, and invite each other to parties and special occasions.

 

He will keep giving you the invitation, he will still want to hang out with you alone and he will want you to be with him in any events he is going to.

 

Read also; When A Guy Wants To Hang Out Alone With You: It Means?

 

When a guy gives you invitations even after you have rejected him this shows that he still likes you and he wants to cook things to convince you to be with him.

 

He knows that the more he spends time with you, he will get to understand why you rejected him and he might get a clue on how to convince you.

 

You may not see that he is doing this because he is careful not to do anything that will turn you off and push you far away from him.

 

It’s his last chance to try and another shot of convincing you to be with him.

 

If he wants to invite you over for drinks and dinners, he still wants to be with you and that is why he still makes all this effort.

 

Read also; When A Guy Invites You Over For Drinks: It Means?

 

8. He doesn’t entertain other women.

A woman looking away from a man she sitting in front of

Most guys will move on immediately when you reject them.

 

Some will do things to show you that you are not the only attractive woman in the world by entertaining other women.

 

Others will make you jealous by hanging out with your best friends and even flirting with them to hurt your feelings.

 

Most guys do this to torment you just for rejecting them and also thinking that it might make you regret letting them go.

 

Some think that it’s the right move to make since you don’t want anything to do with them.

 

I can say other men jump to other women when they find that you don’t want anything to do with them.

 

That’s the reality of things, we move on when we aren’t wanted by someone.

 

For a guy who still has feelings for you even after you rejected him, he won’t think of moving on from you.

 

He will avoid doing anything that will give you the impression that he is no longer into you.

 

Since he still wants you, showing you that he has moved on will only push you far away from him and he won’t get the chance to pull you to his side.

 

He will stop hanging out with other girls, he won’t flirt with anyone else, he will ignore other women just to be there for you and he will not seduce anyone.

 

The thought of him entertaining other women will be out of his head for good since he is still busy trying to win your heart.

 

If a guy doesn’t entertain other women after you rejected him this shows he still wants to be with you.

 

He doesn’t want to give you the impression that he wants to move on and be with someone else.

 

All he will try to do is show you that he is still single and he doesn’t think of being with any other person apart from you.

 

Lastly…

If a guy still wants you even after you have rejected him, he will keep fighting for you.

 

He won’t let go of you. He won’t walk away when you reject him, You will always hear from him, he will want to be around you and he will try everything he can to make you happy.

 

You are the woman he will still want to spend his time with, he will continue buying you gifts and he will be there for you.

 

So, if you have noticed that he is still around you even after you have rejected him, this is a good sign that he still likes you.

 

If you didn’t mean anything to him after you rejected him, he would have walked away from you for good.

 

He would have ghosted you and cut you off from his life, that is what most guys do after they have been rejected.

 

If you find out that he still likes you after you rejected him, make yourself available for him and let him know that you have changed your mind about him if you now want him back.

 

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