Why Your Boyfriend Doesn’t Spend Money On You

A woman thinking why his boyfriend doesn't spend on her

If your boyfriend doesn’t spend money on you the first thing you should know is that he doesn’t care about you. A man who truly values you will always be willing to open his wallet for you.

 

When a guy wants to take care of you, that will be seen from his actions.

 

He will never let you suffer when he has the means to help you out.

 

If your boyfriend has money but doesn’t want to spend it on you, it says lots of things about him and the kind of a man he is.

 

Anyway, don’t make any conclusions yet, there is so much you still have no idea about why he does not take care of you financially.

 

Let us dive deep into this topic for you to understand why your boyfriend is this kind of a man.

 

This is why your boyfriend doesn’t spend money on you;

1. Your boyfriend is struggling financially.

A woman thinking why his boyfriend doesn't spend on her

 

Before I go deeper into this article explaining to you every possible reason why your boyfriend doesn’t want to spend money on you, this is an important part you should understand.

 

The first thing you should know about why your boyfriend doesn’t give you money, buy you things, and spoil you is that he doesn’t have the cash.

 

Your man is struggling financially. Maybe he doesn’t want to open up to you about it because he thinks he might end up losing you.

 

He is going through some financial constraints and that is why it’s hard for him to spoil you.

 

Take your time to observe him. If your relationship with him is on good terms, you are all good but if he doesn’t spend his cash on you, he is broke.

 

He may have a job but the job doesn’t pay him well enough to clear all his bills.

 

When the salary comes in he has lots of bills to pay and after that, he is left with nothing.

 

He is the kind of a guy who depends only on his monthly pay cheque.

 

There are no side hustles that he is working on because he is always busy with a job that doesn’t pay him well.

 

This makes it harder for him to budget the cash to spend on you.

 

It’s not that he doesn’t want to buy you things, take you out, and give you the best experience, money is the issue.

 

If he has not told you about his financial status, this may be the reason this is happening.

 

The expenditure is more compared to his monthly salary. You can’t blame him for this.

 

So, before you conclude that your boyfriend doesn’t care about you at all and that is why he doesn’t want to take care of you financially this is something you should know.

 

If he has the cash but doesn’t spend it on you, that is another case, I will be talking more about that in the next sections of this article.

 

Anyway, some guys are usually afraid to talk about their vulnerabilities thinking that it would change how you look at them.

 

Your boyfriend may be hiding that he is struggling financially so that you don’t change your mind about him.

 

2. He is just a stingy dude.

Now, it’s the other part where he has money but doesn’t spend a dime on you.

 

Your boyfriend is stingy— he is not the kind of guy who has a giving hand.

 

This is usually someone’s habit and you can’t change it. You may say that he is a selfish guy or frugal

 

Someone who is stingy because of the financial situation he is in will hardly give out what he has.

 

He will only give you money when you are only stranded.

 

So, if your boyfriend doesn’t buy you things, take you to places, or help you clear your bills, just know that he is stingy.

 

On the other hand, if your guy is frugal don’t expect that he will give you money to buy anything you want.

 

He will only spend money on you when you need something essential.

 

This is something worth looking at, if he buys you the essentials and leaves out the others, this is your man prioritizing your needs instead of wants.

 

3. He doesn’t care about you.

Does he care about you? Is he aware that you need his financial aid?

 

Let us talk about this and link it with your relationship with him.

 

The first thing you should know is that when a guy cares about his girlfriend he will always be there for her.

 

He will do everything he can to support her whenever she needs anything he can manage to give.

 

You know of the love languages, giving is one of them. When you are in a relationship you have to give each other since it’s an art of love.

 

If your boyfriend is aware that you are stranded financially and he doesn’t even think of supporting you yet he can, this shows how he feels about you.

 

He doesn’t care about you at all.

 

If he did care about you truly then he would have been supporting you financially, buying you the things you need, and treating you often.

 

When a guy doesn’t care about you his love for you is also in question.

 

I know you have seen other men spending dollars on their women without thinking.

 

They do that because they care about them. The value of money doesn’t mean anything if their women aren’t happy.

 

If your boyfriend has the money but doesn’t spend it on you, he honestly doesn’t care about you.

 

He cares about himself, you are just the person he lies to you by claiming that you mean so much to him.

 

A guy who cares about will never find it a big deal to buy you things, give you money, and spoil you.

 

It will always be his joy to spend money on you because it’s something that makes you smile and that is what he only cares about.

 

To see you smile because of the new watch, necklace, and handbag that he bought for you that’s what excites him.

 

4. He spends his money on someone else.

Your boyfriend spends money on someone else and that is why you don’t get his cut.

 

He has the money but it’s not meant for you but someone else better than you.

 

It can be that he spoils another woman that he is so much into and that is why he is left with nothing to give you.

 

When his salary comes in he thinks about spending it on someone else and not you.

 

Can you conclude that he is cheating on you?

 

He may not be cheating on you but his money isn’t for you.

 

There may be another woman who is exploiting him financially and since he wants something from her he doesn’t have a choice.

 

All his cash is used by another woman and he is left broke with nothing to give you.

 

He is motivated to make someone else happy with his money while forgetting that you need his help.

 

On the other hand, your boyfriend may be spending money on his family.

 

His family may be dependent on him financially and he is the only one who can support his family.

 

Whenever he gets the money it all goes to his family and clearing his bills.

 

This leaves him with nothing to spend on you.

 

5. He doesn’t plan to settle down with you.

A man who doesn’t plan to settle with you will never invest in you.

 

Only a guy who sees a future with you will spend money on you.

 

He will be motivated to make you shine and maintain you because he doesn’t have anyone else but you.

 

Spending money on someone is like investing in them. Your boyfriend doesn’t want to invest in you because he knows you are not someone he is going to stick with.

 

Giving you money, buying you things, and maintaining your beauty will only result in his loss.

 

Why should he spend money on you when he will leave you soon enough?

 

He doesn’t want to take care of you for someone else. This is the main reason why he doesn’t open his wallet for you.

 

A man who plans to stick with a woman will invest heavily in her. He will shower her with money to keep her shining.

 

Deep down he knows that if she keeps getting beautiful it’s for him because she is the woman he is planning to put a ring on.

 

If your guy doesn’t spend money on you, doesn’t talk about his future with you, and doesn’t seem to be serious about the relationship, he is not going to stay.

 

He is with you for the moment and that is why he doesn’t want to take care of you financially.

 

If he was sure that you are the girl he wants to settle with he wouldn’t have been closing his wallet when you needed money from him.

 

6. You don’t spend money on him.

Has it occurred to you that your boyfriend may not be spending money on you because you don’t do it either?

 

In a relationship, you have to give to be given.

 

I think this principle applies almost to every part of the relationship.

 

You need to trust someone for them to trust you too.

 

Your boyfriend doesn’t buy you gifts, treat you, or give you money because you don’t do it.

 

He is the kind of guy who will only do the things you do for him.

 

Treat others the way you want to be treated. Your boyfriend held tight on this and that is why he doesn’t spend money on you.

 

Since you don’t spend money on him he feels that there is no need for him to do it either.

 

If you start buying him gifts, offer to split the bills during a date, spoil him with amazing meals, and give him money, he would have been doing it too.

 

Taking care of you financially is not something he thinks about because you have never triggered that.

 

If you give someone gifts during their birthdays, they will also do the same.

 

7. He thinks you don’t need his financial support.

Maybe your boyfriend sees that you are well off financially. You always pay your bills on time, buy yourself the things you need, and take yourself out on trips.

 

Seeing this he knows that you have it all figured out. You can take care of yourself financially because you seem independent.

 

This gives him the impression that you don’t need his help at all. Since you have never told him that you need money from him or ask him to buy you something, he thinks you have it all figured out.

 

Your boyfriend knows you have money and you don’t want to rely on him.

 

If you always struggle to pay your bills without asking him for his help, this might have given him the impression that you can take care of yourself financially.

 

You have never told him that you have financial issues and he assumes that you are good.

 

It can also be that you once told him that you don’t need his financial help and he never bothered spending his cash on you since then.

 

8. He wants you to be an independent woman.

Another reason why your boyfriend doesn’t buy you gifts, give you money, and treat you is that he wants you to be financially independent.

 

He thinks that spending money on you will make you soft and dependent on him and that is what he is trying to avoid.

 

If you have been asking him to give you money often, he figured out that you might end up being super dependent on him financially.

 

He is teaching you to work and earn your money to get yourself the things you need.

 

Giving you money will only make you reluctant and you won’t search for means to take care of yourself financially.

 

If you give your boyfriend a reason to assume that you are dependent on him when it comes to what you need and give him the impression that you are lazy, this is why he doesn’t spend money on you.

 

Lastly…

If your boyfriend doesn’t spend money on you the first thing you have to do is find out if he has money or not.

 

After that check out if he has many financial responsibilities that make it impossible for him to take care of you financially.

 

Make a point of buying your boyfriend some gifts, offer to pay his bills, and give him money when he is stranded financially, this might make him start spending money on you too.

 

Make a point of talking to him and let him know that you would like him to spend money on you.

 

Listen to what he says. If he doesn’t care to do anything yet he can, this shows that he just doesn’t care about you.

 

Should you break up with him because he doesn’t spend money on you?

 

If your boyfriend gives you the impression that he doesn’t care about you, he doesn’t plan to settle with you and his money goes to someone else, just break up with him.

 

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